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ok, so my first girlfriend completely destroyed my trust in women, in ways that would take far too much of your time to explain.
it took me about 3 years before I felt like I could even try again, then when I did, I was made to look and feel so stupid it’s taken me about 4 years to feel ready again.
Now there’s this girl. She’s funny, kind and she genuinely cares about people. I’ve known her for about 9 months now and I’ve wanted to say something for a while but it’s been so long I don’t even know how to start. I don’t even know if she likes me or even how to tell if she does. There’s a 7 year age gap between us as well (I’m older) and to be honest, if we did start dating it would be like a slightly more normal Leonard & Penny from Big Bang Theory.
Maybe she does like me and she’s waiting for me to make a move, maybe she doesn’t and she knows how I feel and she’s hoping I don’t say anything. I just need some help please, it’s driving me round the bend. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks :)
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