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Relationship With Co-Workers Failing Because I Slept With Another Co-worker…
Two years ago, I was brand new, not a party person, and I hadn’t had sex with anyone before. At a staff party, coworkers were passing me drinks, but all I remember is waking up in the basement of the party, bately able to move, with another coworker on top of me, (who is 16 years older than me,) is married with small kids, and is the “funny guy” in charge at work. Everyone loves him because he’s so funny and outgoing, but I just don’t take to jocks. Anyway, at the party, three coworkers that were friends of his walked in on us and he made it look like he was asleep. I felt terrible. I’m not attracted to him and never wanted that, but since then, none of the coworkers invite me to do things or go to places that he is at. I feel awkward when he is around because he is so assertive and intimidating because I’m shy. It makes me feel bad because I think our coworkers think I’m responsible for it. This year, he is my boss when I go back after vacation, and I’m scared about how hard he’s going to be on me and make work difficult for me. He’s nice to me when nobody is around, but when they are there, he treats me like crap. I can’t leave my job, but I wish I knew how they could gain my trust again. I wish I could tell them that I didn’t seduce him or anything. I couldn’t even move that night. I never wanted it. I just want to be invited out again and for them to give me a chance. Is there anything I can do?
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