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what if ones mother is a prost¡tute and she loves you and has raised you with a lot of pain.

now i hate her after i came to know about this. I think she does this to raise us or i don’t know.

please advice. i love my mom. i don’t know what to do.

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873ravikira offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Mother is always a mother, regardless of how she raised you. Mother’s love can never be replaced. The fact that you love your mum and hence raised this question goes on to prove that you share a great relationship. Please relish it no matter what! Its very often said, but I will say it any way, ‘we do not realize the value of a object till we lose it’. That said, I can understand the uncomfortableness of the situation.You can always talk to her about it (not accusingly)and exchange views, I am sure that will sort out things a bit. PS: Whatever happens, please understand that she loves you!

Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Try to accept her! She is your mother, and she loves you too.
For sure she had reasons to do this job.
Maybe you could have a nice and sympathetic talk with her one day?
But don’t condemn her!

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meisabelep offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Making money can be really hard. She probably wasn’t proud about what she was doing, but she did it so that she could provide a better life for you and your family.
You should forgive her, and don’t blame yourself either if you’re thinking about that. It’s a cruel world, and being a prostitute probably pays more than the jobs she could have gotten.
She doesn’t seem like a bad person. I read an article about 4 generations of prostitutes, where the mothers would send their daughters out to be prostitutes when they were young teenagers.

Try to understand and let her know that you love her and appreciate the things she has done, even though you wish she had a different job. Maybe help her find work somewhere else.

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