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Power of attorney/last statement question…

Before I go into this, I am NOT unstable or anything like that and this question is not for me at all. It’s a question of pure (morbid) curiosity only. So onto it…

Suicide seems to be a hush-hush topic in our society. From talking about it, to actually treating the dead in the same way as someone who passed naturally- we shy away from it.

So anyone familiar with law can answer the first part, and ANYONE can answer the second part:

If a person were to walk into an attorney’s office to draw up some kind of legal document that states what the person in question wants done with themselves after they take their own life, does the attorney have an obligation by law to notify authorities? Or do they have an obligation to their client to guarantee that person’s rights and wishes are met? The person states “I allow my name to be released to the news media upon my suicide with no other connotation to it other than to identify myself to the public”.

Second question: Do you feel the attorney should respect this person’s wishes to the end? Or should this attorney attempt to interfere with the other person’s situation?

Keep in mind, the suicide itself has no meaning. The person is/isn’t depressed, the person is/isn’t bored with life, the person is/isn’t doing it to make a statement, the person is/isn’t doing it for whatever other reason. There is no connotation.

Let’s hear it! :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

You should understand that this site has a chronic condition of depressed people seeking help with suicidal tendencies, so it is not a topic to randomly talk about with no connotations, for no particular reason. It always has connotations if you mention suicide here, which partially explains why that robot pops up.

I’d recommend googling for legal sites.

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9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

lifelover wrote:
You should understand that this site has a chronic condition of depressed people seeking help with suicidal tendencies, so it is not a topic to randomly talk about with no connotations, for no particular reason. It always has connotations if you mention suicide here, which partially explains why that robot pops up.

I’d recommend googling for legal sites.

You raise a very good point, I didn’t even think about that.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

An ethical lawyer would refuse to draft such a document for you, and would–depending upon the state–be required to notify the authorities of a suicidal design.

Just draft up a will, saying what your last wishes are. You don’t have to list any cause of death.

And talk to a therapist, or a clergyman, or both. Suicide is literally a dead end. I’ve dealt with suicides before. There’s always an element of hostility, of aggression, in such an act.

Our lives will end soon enough without any help from us. What you–and I–need to do is make our lives count for something. Death, my friend, will take care of itself!

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