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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Well I hope you feel better soon and random guy comes to his senses.

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mindhealer online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (30 minutes after post)

YOU SUCK.

I’m sorry you feel that way. I promise that I will try to suck less some day.

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

lifelover wrote:

YOU SUCK.

I’m sorry you feel that way. I promise that I will try to suck less some day.

LOL, not you silly. i think youre pretty awesome ^-^

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Why does this person actually suck?

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
Why does this person actually suck?

i dont know, lol, i guess im just aggravated. im tired of being blown off and replaced and ignored constantly like i have been the past 3 months.

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r4n5a77 offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 35 minutes after post)

i can see what ur saying cause im brown eyed too ,yes at times a hopeless jerk too . getting caught up in whats worse thing one or thing two.so now i can see where depression becomes a diease. lost in whats fears and not make believe .so i ask you to forgive me for passing on my disease. one day so maybe today smiles for everyone cause well no longer be our on slaves . but kings and queens in our world so so real . where r words no long kill any hope we carried all these years. thank u for being a guru , maybe even toast u with root beer

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Help me with: Hello there .
Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 39 minutes after post)

PresidentAwesome:3 wrote:

Allthemessylove. wrote:
Why does this person actually suck?

im tired of being blown off and replaced and ignored constantly like i have been the past 3 months.

this sounds like an actually very appropriate reason. Being shut out by someone is one of the most negative feedbacks given by the people we care for. How are things at the moment? You can always change your attitude about it - forgive and/or forget - or act towards a new result!

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:

PresidentAwesome:3 wrote:
Allthemessylove. wrote:
Why does this person actually suck?

im tired of being blown off and replaced and ignored constantly like i have been the past 3 months.

this sounds like an actually very appropriate reason. Being shut out by someone is one of the most negative feedbacks given by the people we care for. How are things at the moment? You can always change your attitude about it - forgive and/or forget - or act towards a new result!

at the moment..im a little better. i just needed to vent for a minute and get it out of my system. not many people at my house to talk about it to, so to help land i go ^-^ lol.
i can try to change my attitude but im not really sure how. V.V :/

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 47 minutes after post)

changing your attitude is easy but difficult…you have to force yourself. you just tell yourself; “Hey, I think it’s better for my emotional state if I just stop caring now.” and you have to work at it, avoid things that might creep those feelings back in. It sounds harder than it really is. I guess it’s all about will power.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Time is the best medicine, a long with laughter.

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mindhealer online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
Being shut out by someone is one of the most negative feedbacks given by the people we care for.

I feel like it’s the worst thing. But if I’m busy shutting someone out, who is the nicest person and best friend to me, how can I apologize at the same time? It would take years to try to apologize for something like that, also it would require talking.

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 52 minutes after post)

i could try that. so for now, no angry or sad songs that will make me more mad at him? lol xD normally thats my method, clearly doesnt work too well

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mindhealer online Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 53 minutes after post)

PresidentAwesome:3 wrote:

lifelover wrote:
YOU SUCK.

I’m sorry you feel that way. I promise that I will try to suck less some day.

LOL, not you silly. i think youre pretty awesome ^-^

Yeah, I know, I’m very different than who you were talking about. But you didn’t say “he sucks” so it was addressed to whoever might actually read it, which was me, unless you send it to him, which I highly recommend for the soap-opera factor.

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (13 hours, 55 minutes after post)

lifelover wrote:

PresidentAwesome:3 wrote:
lifelover wrote:
YOU SUCK.

I’m sorry you feel that way. I promise that I will try to suck less some day.

LOL, not you silly. i think youre pretty awesome ^-^

Yeah, I know, I’m very different than who you were talking about. But you didn’t say “he sucks” so it was addressed to whoever might actually read it, which was me, unless you send it to him, which I highly recommend for the soap-opera factor.

hahah!! nahh no soap opera drama here. if i send him a post in which im saying he sucks and insulting his ex girlfriend severly i HIGHLY doubt that would end well x.X

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

lifelover wrote:

Allthemessylove. wrote:
Being shut out by someone is one of the most negative feedbacks given by the people we care for.

I feel like it’s the worst thing. But if I’m busy shutting someone out, who is the nicest person and best friend to me, how can I apologize at the same time? It would take years to try to apologize for something like that, also it would require talking.

speaking of talking, I haven’t talked to you in forever! How are you? :)

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

PresidentAwesome:3 wrote:
i could try that. so for now, no angry or sad songs that will make me more mad at him? lol xD normally thats my method, clearly doesnt work too well

Listen to your favorite music and maybe it will take your mind off him and on you! Cheer yourself up, do somethings that you love, eat some of your favorite foods, and stretch! Stretching is one of my favorite things :)

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President Awesome:3 edited this post 3 months, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

insert angry vague rant here.
YOU SUCK. i hate you and your ability to make me feel overjoyed one second and indescribably angry the next. i hate your stupid sense of humor that keeps me laughing for hours. I hate your heart of gold that makes me admire you. i hate your good intent, i hate your respectfulness. I hate your caring nature. I hate your stupid big brown eyes and your adorable laugh. I hate everything that makes me care about you. I hate that i cant stay mad at you.
screwyou for blowing me off. i cannot stand feeling like ive been replaced. Are we even friends anymore? because i sure doesnt seem like it. T.T we hardly speak because you’re always too busy for me. And even when we do you dont even attempt to hold a conversation. im sorry but i find that a tad infuriating. i never even fricking dated you why in the HELL do i care about you so much? my brain doesnt compute. oh whatever. im done caring. soon enough youll replace that other chick too and then youll just go running back to your complete and total WWHORE of an ex girlfriend whos cheated on you more times that she can count and for one, i dont understand why she cant just stop and appreciate what she has in front of her in the first place, and for two for the life of me i cannot fathom why you keep going back to her? Im sorry, but if it doesnt work out the first time its probably not going to work out the second….or the twentieth… how long until you finally get it through your thick skull, that not only is she a psychotic jealous ungrateful b*, but she will continue to screw you over in the long run?
maybe thats just me already being angry in the first place getting ticked off about that again. oh well. this will pass im sure. ill get over it eventually. for now, hop off jerk. x(

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