friends help: Alright guys I need your advise. - Help.com

Be nice and empathetic, but keep your distance all the time. What else!

Be straight forward and honest when he asks you.

He’s not cool with being just friends.

You will have to distance yourself from him if you don’t want to keep getting bugged by him!

Guys are notorious for not taking no for an answer. I think it’s either to do with a social prejudice that women will bend with persistence (sounds like Hollywood might be playing a role here), or it’s women not being very good at saying no. Or maybe it’s a combination of the two.
But it sounds like you’ve been very clear with him, so clear that there’s nothing he can read into. I’d tell him how you feel about him bringing it up all the time and suggest that maybe a little distance for awhile might be good for him.

Oh I see this road ending in trouble. And confusion.
If I were you, I’d be more cautious.

thats happening to me and my guy friend. just cool it off with him.

It has something to do with our male-dominated culture: when a man says no, it’s the end of the discussion; when a woman says no, it’s the beginning of a negotiation. Stick to your decision and be firm about it.