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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

you are not alone. there are friends here on Help. what seems to be troubeling you?

Siren offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

theres 7 billion people on this planet, youre not alone

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dednseyed offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (14 minutes after post)

yep i’m here too, lots of people all over the world here with you on this site, and i’ll bet someone you know cares about you but you just can’t see it right now, i went to a funeral of a friend that committed suicide, he thought no-one cared about him but in all honesty before that funeral i had never seen so many people so sad because they lost someone they cared about- so turns out he was wrong about that one, i’m guessing you are too.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

My friends are never here for me … I have no one to talk to when I’m feeling down.

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Any time I’m on I would be willing to talk to you. What do you want to talk about?

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dednseyed offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

maybe you just havent met the right friends yet, or maybe they love you but they’re not sure how to support people when they’re down, maybe they don’t realise your upset. we’re here for you. why are you feeling so down?

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (23 minutes after post)

This site is about mindfullness. I think that it would be benificial for you.
http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontam…

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (58 minutes after post)

of course there are people who care about you. you arent alone. whats going on?

R.O.G. wrote:
Your avatar looks like a swastika. Hmm. Swastika avatar. Feels alone. No one cares about them…holy battered testicles, are you Hitler?!

its just an anon avi derp :P lol. xD

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.................... offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

R.O.G. wrote:
Your avatar looks like a swastika. Hmm. Swastika avatar. Feels alone. No one cares about them…holy battered testicles, are you Hitler?!

Ignore him :) ^

You sound depressed and fed up. stay here for a bit. people here honestly do care. x

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

you are not alone, little anony

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Thank you all for your support it means a lot! For the fisrt time in my life I feel like people do care about me and it feels good:)

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

R.O.G. wrote:
Your avatar looks like a swastika. Hmm. Swastika avatar. Feels alone. No one cares about them…holy battered testicles, are you Hitler?!

Me, Hitler ? How do you ever dare to say this ? get out of my page weirdo!

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

you’re quite welcome, and remember there are always people that care about you. If ever you need to talk you can do that here. :)

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Thank you so much :)

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
This site is about mindfullness. I think that it would be benificial for you.
http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontam…

Thank you for the site :)

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

we all feel terribly alone sometimes. what’s troubling you?

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President Awesome:3 offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

you can always come here, we all care about you ^-^ im glad youre feeling better

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

No problem I think it would help you accept you for who you are..

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
we all feel terribly alone sometimes. what’s troubling you?

You know I’m going through a hard time right now and my friends know that and they don’t care, they never call or text me to ask if things are going better… I feel really alone

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

PresidentAwesome:3 wrote:
you can always come here, we all care about you ^-^ im glad youre feeling better

Thanks :)

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
No problem I think it would help you accept you for who you are..

Yeah you’re right

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Anonymous #
10 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

It sounds like your friends aren’t really your friends. perhaps you need to look for some new friends.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
It sounds like your friends aren’t really your friends. perhaps you need to look for some new friends.

Yeah I think so…

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
No problem I think it would help you accept you for who you are..

I think you’re right

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

sorry to hear that. :/ sometimes it can be hard to be young and be a good friend when dealing with more serious situations. many times they don’t know how to handle it.

why has it been such a hard time for you?

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
sorry to hear that. :/ sometimes it can be hard to be young and be a good friend when dealing with more serious situations. many times they don’t know how to handle it.

why has it been such a hard time for you?

Well my mother is in the hospital and my father works miles away from us so I’m living at my aunt’s…

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

wow that sounds really difficult. why has your mother been hospitalized? how is she doing?

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

I can empathize. Both of my parents have been hospitalized for extended periods at various times throughout my life. It is dificult, but managable. Trust in that.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
wow that sounds really difficult. why has your mother been hospitalized? how is she doing?

She has a heart disease and she broke her elbow… She’s getting better day by day

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chansweetie offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Try to go out or have some fun then you can meet friends or goon chat sites.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

chansweetie wrote:
Try to go out or have some fun then you can meet friends or goon chat sites.

I’m going to try

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

I’m glad to hear that your mother is getting better. Things will continue to get better.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

JRoulston D.Div wrote:
I’m glad to hear that your mother is getting better. Things will continue to get better.

I hope so, thanks

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

glad to hear she’s doing better. :) it really must be a scary time. and having to stay in a different house while that’s happening is rough, too.

maybe you can reach out to a friend and just say you want to hang out because you need to get your mind off of current things. perhaps they just don’t know how to reach out to you or what to say.

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
glad to hear she’s doing better. :) it really must be a scary time. and having to stay in a different house while that’s happening is rough, too.

maybe you can reach out to a friend and just say you want to hang out because you need to get your mind off of current things. perhaps they just don’t know how to reach out to you or what to say.

you could try asking your friends to go mall ratting with you.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
glad to hear she’s doing better. :) it really must be a scary time. and having to stay in a different house while that’s happening is rough, too.

maybe you can reach out to a friend and just say you want to hang out because you need to get your mind off of current things. perhaps they just don’t know how to reach out to you or what to say.

I know I should hang out with my friends but I focus on my mom so much that I don’t feel like going out and having fun…

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

maybe you could write your mom or dad a letter instead. or watch a movie or listen to music.

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
maybe you could write your mom or dad a letter instead. or watch a movie or listen to music.

I listen to music all the time :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (3 hours, 36 minutes after post)

MarieB wrote:

a wild ozy appears wrote:
glad to hear she’s doing better. :) it really must be a scary time. and having to stay in a different house while that’s happening is rough, too.

maybe you can reach out to a friend and just say you want to hang out because you need to get your mind off of current things. perhaps they just don’t know how to reach out to you or what to say.

I know I should hang out with my friends but I focus on my mom so much that I don’t feel like going out and having fun…

Hi MarieB. I hope it has helped talking. It can be really hard to reach out to people when we have alot on our minds and alot to cope with.

What ozy says is true. People just don’t always know what to do or say. What i do know is true though is that most people like it when we reach out to them for support, help or company. It makes them feel useful and important….we all need that. if you can’t face calling and saying hey, i’m having a bad time, would love to hang out and take my mind off things….how about texting a friend and saying hi, how are u? that’s all.

I am the worlds worst person at reaching out when i am low so i know it is hard… it sound’s like you could do with some time to switch off and relax….

MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (3 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Seven wrote:

MarieB wrote:
a wild ozy appears wrote:
glad to hear she’s doing better. :) it really must be a scary time. and having to stay in a different house while that’s happening is rough, too.

maybe you can reach out to a friend and just say you want to hang out because you need to get your mind off of current things. perhaps they just don’t know how to reach out to you or what to say.

I know I should hang out with my friends but I focus on my mom so much that I don’t feel like going out and having fun…

Hi MarieB. I hope it has helped talking. It can be really hard to reach out to people when we have alot on our minds and alot to cope with.

What ozy says is true. People just don’t always know what to do or say. What i do know is true though is that most people like it when we reach out to them for support, help or company. It makes them feel useful and important….we all need that. if you can’t face calling and saying hey, i’m having a bad time, would love to hang out and take my mind off things….how about texting a friend and saying hi, how are u? that’s all.

I am the worlds worst person at reaching out when i am low so i know it is hard… it sound’s like you could do with some time to switch off and relax….

Thank you so much! It feels good to see that people understand what I’m feeling

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 572 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (3 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Just remember you are never alone

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (3 hours, 45 minutes after post)

JRoulston D.Div wrote:
Just remember you are never alone

Yeah ;)

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MarieB offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (6 hours, 4 minutes after post)

R.O.G. wrote:
Maybe no one cares about you because you don’t have a sense of humour?

Seriously I don’t what is wrong with but I’m not gonna waste my time talking to you so bye.

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

You are not alone…Help.com People are with you.Sometimes I feel lonely too.But don’t get depressed.Time will pass by.Engage in more activities.And well….if not all then at least many cares about you…surely.:-)

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brandons248 offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

trust in jesus :)

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NpcrDash offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

I know this feeling so well I am so sorry you have to go through this… Please feel better

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