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Why is there ALWAYS another woman?
I really can’t take this anymore. I’m 26 years old and I’m starting to think no relationship will ever work out for me. For the past seven years every guy I’ve had serious feelings for or dated regularly (five total) has either cheated on me or dumped me and immediately started seeing someone else.
The really weird thing is this happens when things are going really well - like after saying “I love you” or after physical intimacy which we’ve waited over six months to share together. Also, the most recent guy that this happened with told me that he had “sky high standards” and that I “hit everything on his list” but that he had met someone else and that was that.
I don’t get it. Please don’t give me some bs advice like “going to the gym”, “getting a hobby,” or “getting a career.” I work out 5-6x a week, I have “hobbies” (photography, painting, reading, writing, theater, hiking),I have an undergrad and post grad degree (BA and JD), I make friends easily, and I’m not clingy or needy. But I feel like none of that makes any difference though.
I don’t get it. I’m starting to feel like I’m just never going to be enough for anyone.
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