Love help: Do u think that some one would love an ugly Girl ? - Help.com

yeah of course! Appearance isn’t everything.
I know that’s a cliche but it’s not.

Plus everyone gets old and ugly eventually

Of course! Women love ugly guys right? It’s inner beauty that makes a man want to commit.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Cliche but undeniably true.

There is no such thing as a ugly girl or guy everyone is beautiful or handsome in there own way

I’m not sure I get the unhappy face. My comment was meant to be positive!

There we go!

It’s kind of a rigged question. Just because you’re not pretty doesn’t mean you can’t get a guy to be interested in you. Confidence is key to compensating for a lack of looks. Weight isn’t as big a deal to guys as the media would like you to think either. In fact, I would say most guys would find an uber-skinny girl less attractive than a girl who is on the chunky side. The reason the uber-skinny ones get more dudes is because they tend to have more confidence. Confidence, confidence, confidence-a painful, difficult, trying thing to obtain. Can takes many years to develop with a concerted effort on your part. But it really means everything when it comes to having a good romantic relationship, and even having good and meaningful friendships and family relationships. Confidence can change your life. Even if the confidence isn’t warranted. “fake till you make it.” as they say.

Keep ur chin up u are beautiful

I don’t beleive you are ugly Marya Jo, I just believe YOU choose to believe you were at the moment you wrote the post. You have to stop thinking negative things about yourself and start loving yourself. The most important person to love you is you. If you don’t love yourself NOBODY can. All you will have is a love where you are needy and expecting things they can not deliver. They will be overwhelmed and resentful.

Love yourself and then you will find it easier to love others and be loved. Don’t expect someone to love you enough to enable you to love yourself, that’s asking way too much.

So stop implying you’re ugly when you know you are not and don’t expect us all to believe you are and if you need help with anything, hair, makeup, skincare, clothing, post on that.

Best wishes beautiful!

M_JO wrote:
i wanna tell you that i’m verrrry skinny and in my country they do not like the skinny girls :) and beside that i looks ugly … and it is truth .. even i’m trying to be kind or helpful no one sees that they always care of how u looks from out side

Skinny is a postive in the West. Women who are medically ill through starvation are considered beautiful by the fashion industry. If you eat well and exercise and are naturally skinny you are fortunate. I don’t know why you think you are ugly. You provide no evidence. I believe you interprete people to believe you are ugly when they probably aren’t even that focused on you to think that. I still don’t beleive you are ugly.

this so funny do i have to be serious?

Try and get some face to face counselling to deal with your issues that are manifesting themselves in your incorrect belief that you are ugly. Learn to see how beautiful you are and go out into the world and contribute to it, not feeling unworthy of anyone. You are good enough to attract the love of God and as far as I know, there hasn’t been anybody better since.

I like skinny girls. Your personality is everything. Project a positive attitude and you will make friends and influence people.

ENAMTHBert wrote:
this so funny do i have to be serious?

A psychiatrist was taking a group of anorexics out on a shopping trip and a scout for a TOP international modelling agency approached SEVERAL of them with a view to offering them modelling contracts. The psychiatrist said that it completely undermined ALL she had achieved. These young women were medically ill, malnourished and extremely underweight and yet were sought after for modelling contracts. If a person eats well and exercises and still is naturally skinny that is fine, but for some to achieve that look is due to starvation which is totally unhealthy.

Being stick thin is considered a form of beauty in the West especially in the media.

In some parts of the world, being overweight is considered beautiful. As R.O.G stated above, ‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!’

I do not believe the Op is ugly, I believe the Op believes that she is ugly.

Ugly girls are the very best. They are always so grateful, plus they won’t leave you or cheat on you and if they do, who cares lol lol lol

eimearmn8 wrote:
No one in dis world is fat. We are all truely beautiful and beauty cmes from de inside out

Believe me, fat does exist but that does not negate one’s ability to be beautiful.

Just to reiterate what I commented before…because this is really a universal rule I feel like…Confidence is EVERYTHING. Doesn’t matter what country you live in. Unless you live in a place where women don’t have the same rights as men and confidence can get them into trouble. In which case, you probably have a wonderful (I mean that genuinely since statistics seem to agree with it) arranged marriage to look forward to. Sometimes I wish there were arranged marriages in my culture. SOMETIMES…

In fact the word beautiful, sometimes seems to me just crazy and often are exaggerated And distortion .
actually the beautiful more could hurt me sometimes it doesn’t make sense.

Anonymous wrote:
Ugly girls are the very best. They are always so grateful, plus they won’t leave you or cheat on you and if they do, who cares lol lol lol

thats Funny Too.

We are human our body Cells
and when we walk or movement and breathing air. And The brain
we and our body full of amazing .

I like to walk

Well, I’ve seen girls that, to my eyes, were uglier than the south end of a north bound cow goin’ around with some pretty handsome guys so.. yup.

You’ll get lots of replies on this one and no one has ever accussed me of being handsome. Regardless of what you look like, pretty, ugly, tall, short, fat, skinny, etc… everyone has someone that should love them. I am not going to say God as not sure what your religion/lack if religion is but everyone should love themselves. Love yourself first and others will come to love you too.

It’s not all about appearances so yeah.

Its hard to connect with people and get love. If you know how you are golden. Plus its a matter of oportuity just like getting a job is a matter of opportunity. Some man is just ready to fall in love and you know how to be the one he loves. The main thing is don;t fall too deeply in love with a man. Its always good to keep your wits about you, because you can be like the designated driver in the relationship in certain situations. Someone who has their wits about them and doesn’t drink the koool aid in a relationship is very valuable. Anyway good luck finding love.

Beauty is a good thing to focus on. Life is beautiful, people are beautiful, helping is beautiful, it’s all so… pretty. Even if people are mean to you when they don’t like how you look, there’s still some beauty in life.

The term “ugly” is a word based on the medias/societies idea of beauty. If you aren’t equipped with: big eyes, small nose, full lips, high cheekbones, and whatever else at the same time, you’re ugly, apparently… I disagree however, though there are people I am not attracted to, I believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. You don’t have to look perfect to be beautiful! I like unique looking people, I’m actually drawn to that. Trust me, there are a lot of people drawn to that. Don’t beat yourself up just because you don’t meet societies standards, no one does! Accept yourself and the flaws you have because we all have them, just like we all have insecurities. Now, I hope that uplifted you in some way!

Anyways, I can definitely be won over by someone who is not exactly my type if they have an amazing personality. Personality actually does count a lot more than looks at the end of the day. I need to be able to have a conversation with you, I need to be able to have fun with you.

ugly is an action.
love is stronger.
I think the way we perceive is mostly, if not solely determined by us. I think if you love someone, there is no part of you that thinks they are ugly.

being ugly is different from being in love… Facial appearance doesn’t affect on love. the most important to love someone is heart the jerk for that girl!

Yeah the Western society does focus so much on looks. They try to tell us if we buy this product to improve our appearance we will be happier.

I don´t think so. For the guy that loves the so called ugly girl will see her as beautiful.

ugly in reality is how a person is, not how they look

and also true love is being in love with a person
not how they look

calemus wrote:
ugly in reality is how a person is, not how they look

so true, just wish other people would see it this way.

Still don’t believe you’re ugly. Still believe you just think that you are.

M_JO wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Still don’t believe you’re ugly. Still believe you just think that you are.

but my family member told me that too

If someone tells you you are ugly, it tells you more about what they think of you that what you are. That does not constitute proof. Many bad mothers call their children stupid. That does not make it the truth.