friends help: how do you know if he’s flirting with me or if he likes me?

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how do you know if he’s flirting with me or if he likes me?

I met him last month through a group of friends. We already know each other since I seen him around before and he is friends with my brother. Anyways, since we exchanged contact information, he been texting and asking me to hang out with him and his friends. I rejected him because i have a boyfriend and he knows that. I am planning to break up with my boyfriend because we are not compatible and stuff. Last friday he asked if I wanted to go to the movies and since I rejected him so many times, I just went along with it to meet new friends and stuff. We went to watch it with his friend too. He paid for my movie ticket. Last thursday we hung out again and he bought my movie ticket again since I got there 10 mins before it started. When I arrived he gave me a big one arm hug and asked if i wore those boots because I knew I was going out with him. And I said no (in a smiley way). He later asked me when was I gonna treat him to dinner because i been working overtime lately. So does this mean he wants to go out with me or is it just flirting?

He would always joke around with me, laugh at me and tease me. And even pet my head. He also invited me to camping and bbq events too, but he asked me last min? But I couldn’t go. I just recently started hanging out with him.

he also have a lot of female friends and he would invite them to places too. So I don’t know. But one of his female friend did pay for the parking fee…

btw he most likely won’t do anything appropriate. I know his friends and they know me and so does my brother.

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how do you know if he’s flirting with me or if he likes me?

I met him last month through a group of friends. We already know each other since I seen him around before and he is friends with my brother. Anyways, since we exchanged contact information, he been texting and asking me to hang out with him and his friends. I rejected him because i have a boyfriend and he knows that. I am planning to break up with my boyfriend because we are not compatible and stuff. Last friday he asked if I wanted to go to the movies and since I rejected him so many times, I just went along with it to meet new friends and stuff. We went to watch it with his friend too. He paid for my movie ticket. Last thursday we hung out again and he bought my movie ticket again since I got there 10 mins before it started. When I arrived he gave me a big one arm hug and asked if i wore those boots because I knew I was going out with him. And I said no (in a smiley way). He later asked me when was I gonna treat him to dinner because i been working overtime lately. So does this mean he wants to go out with me or is it just flirting?

He would always joke around with me, laugh at me and tease me. And even pet my head. He also invited me to camping and bbq events too, but he asked me last min? But I couldn’t go. I just recently started hanging out with him.

lost jazz 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Give it more time go on dates do not I repeat do not do anything inappropriate I did that way to much and got hurt I screwed up my whole life and have lost pretty much all my riends bc of my ways. He prolly likes you but don’t rush into things another one of my many mistakes lol

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roofdonkey 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (35 minutes after post)

lost jazz wrote:
Give it more time go on dates do not I repeat do not do anything inappropriate I did that way to much and got hurt I screwed up my whole life and have lost pretty much all my riends bc of my ways. He prolly likes you but don’t rush into things another one of my many mistakes lol

Agreed!
Youve only known him a few months?

Slow down, slow it down. Dont lose control. =)
Enjoy your friendship with him.
Take your time.

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roofdonkey 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (45 minutes after post)

lost jazz:
I dont know you, and ive only read some of your posts, but I want to tell you and all of those that feel like their lives are wasted and filled with bad choices, your life is MORE than simply the choices youve made.
There is still hope and a chance for Love as sure as you are breathing.
No matter how life (and bad choices) have ripped up and chewed up and spit you out, there still exists a light in a dark place.
The question I ask is,
“Do you want to be healed?”

Keep seeking. Keep knocking.
Dont let disappointments slow you down. There is a reason for all this, if you seek it with all of your heart and passion.
Love endures.
-roofdonkey

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Anonymous #
9 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

i’m not going to rush into things lol. I will definitely not want to start something too soon. lol but try to hang out with him as much as possible and get to know him more.

roofdonkey 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i’m not going to rush into things lol. I will definitely not want to start something too soon. lol but try to hang out with him as much as possible and get to know him more.

Excellent! ^^

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lost jazz 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (10 hours, 53 minutes after post)

That a girl lol

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