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what do you think?

i have been seeing this guy for a couple of months now, and we consider each other boyfriend and girlfriend. we recently started saying i love you…things are good. however, i met one of his girl friends the other day and we were talking today and she told me that he had asked her what she thought of me and if he should keep me. i couldn’t help but be a little bit irked by this. he’s told me in the past that he’s asked his friends opinion of me, and that was fine, but now that it’s been a couple of months and we consider each other girl friend and boyfriend, and say i love you, shouldn’t he be done getting everyone’s thoughts on me? it makes me feel like i’m being tested, or on a trial period or something. am i being too sensitive?

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Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

please someone respond!

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

I don’t think that you’re being too sensitive, but you should confirm her story with your boyfriend and tell him how his asking his friends whether you are good for him makes you feel. If he loves you, he shouldn’t be asking outsiders about his relationship with you, and if you love him, you should be talking to him about all of this.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Couple thing’s did he recently ask her this? or was she one of his friends he asked awhile back when he told you this? If yes then think nothing of it!

If not and you know that for sure then do exactly what Verge above just said!

Good Luck in your relationship and hope it will be a fun loving adventure for you!

TIP: Listen very little to what other’s say when your dating someone….listen more to your heart and how he treat’s you!

Other’s will lead you away….but your heart will lead you in the right direction if you listen to it!

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