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I’ve been on help for awhile, and visited numerous sites that are similar.

And it seems I’ve found an anomaly….there are thousands of people who are apparently in love….with their best friends. What does this mean people? Do you think this is a recent cultural trend? Perhaps something in the water?

The most astounding part of it is that this infatuation almost always coincides with a lack of knowledge of what to “do” about “it.” Should I ask him/her out? Should I jeopardize our friendship? What happens if he/she says no?

What do you all think about this phenomenon?

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,055 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

It’s been the same story for the past few thousand years, and I think it’ll be the same for a few thousand more… (or at least until the end of the year if that’s what you believe :D)

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

It’s not a “phenomenon” at all, but PURE LIFE!
And yes, since Adam and Eve! ;-)

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (11 hours, 50 minutes after post)

May be it’s because best friends or just very good friends know each other better than knowing others. One law is-you love him/her with whom you spent most of the time.So I think here this law is working…

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (23 hours, 29 minutes after post)

This made me laugh so hard!! :)

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spiratec9 online Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

Many people don’t recognize their sole mates.
Believe me if you meet your soul mate you will know.

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