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Old mother,Unmarried sister,Younger brother in school,How to left them alone ?

A girl working in my office,aged around 28, is the only earning member of her family.She is good looking and very nice.since last two years a boy ,working with us is in love with her.it was a one side love but last week he proposed the girl .she also likes him,but the big problem is ,she asked me what will happen to the family .i have to give her the way to make her life happy with your help i need,please..

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

If she is their only support, she cannot just disengage from her family.

She should, however, meet with her sister and brother and secure OATHS from them as to how they will continue to support their mother!

It may be that when she marries, she will need to bring her mother into her home.

No worthwhile person would ask someone to abandon his or her mother. It may not be convenient, and it may not be the best situation, but we cannot disregard our responsibilities toward our parents!

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sherley olive offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

If the man really loves her, he would be willing to figure out ways to solve the problem. I think even if you are her good friend, the problem should be solved by the girl and the man themselves.That’s their life and since they’ve already planned to spend the rest of their life together, there always be a good way to cover those things.

Plus, you are a really good friend.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (9 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Yup, cant her sister also get a job? WHat about her younger brother, maybe a part time job (if he already doesnt have one). But she and her sister should be able to help their mom. You cant stop your life because of your family….

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