Okay let’s try this : Be Silent for One week. Have Patience for One week ? Can you do this for just one week ? Listen to them Agree and do whatever they want you to do just try it for one week that’s it. Be Kind with everyone. Forgive them for what they said or do in past.
I`m sure they will notice your silence and they will talk to you and than tell them what you feel. :-)
If there has been threts on your life, and/or you feel like you are in danger call the police, or children services. In most places it is illegal to make threts, and no one should be forced to do anything.
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okei! wrote:
w/ an avatar like that. ur still a kid
thanks. that helps. lots…
the dyal wrote:
Okay let’s try this : Be Silent for One week. Have Patience for One week ? Can you do this for just one week ? Listen to them Agree and do whatever they want you to do just try it for one week that’s it. Be Kind with everyone. Forgive them for what they said or do in past.
I`m sure they will notice your silence and they will talk to you and than tell them what you feel. :-)
… iv tried for the last 17 yrears ^^
my feeling never really mattered…
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tenshi wrote:
the dyal wrote:
Okay let’s try this : Be Silent for One week. Have Patience for One week ? Can you do this for just one week ? Listen to them Agree and do whatever they want you to do just try it for one week that’s it. Be Kind with everyone. Forgive them for what they said or do in past.
I`m sure they will notice your silence and they will talk to you and than tell them what you feel. :-)
… iv tried for the last 17 yrears ^^
my feeling never really mattered…
Dear sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.Be clam and accept everything and don’t expect something in return. Good things will happen :-)
Even after all this time,
the sun never says to the earth, “You owe me!”
Look what happens with a love like that,
it lights up the whole sky.
-Hafez
If you argue nothing going to change but if you try to explain with a clam heart they will understand.
okei! wrote:
tenshi wrote:
okei! wrote:
w/ an avatar like that. ur still a kid
thanks. that helps. lots…
joking. cmon. this too shall pass, how i love to be ur age. with that age of urs, everything should be cool and no problemo. cause when u reach my age, and u gets old, that’s where the real prob. begins. just take it lightly w/ur parents. u owe them a lot honey, so just Chill.
:P
thats the thing i cant ‘chill’. + how does being beaten up by my parents sound to you? cool?^^ and 2nd they owe me too…
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the dyal wrote:
tenshi wrote:
the dyal wrote:
Okay let’s try this : Be Silent for One week. Have Patience for One week ? Can you do this for just one week ? Listen to them Agree and do whatever they want you to do just try it for one week that’s it. Be Kind with everyone. Forgive them for what they said or do in past.
I`m sure they will notice your silence and they will talk to you and than tell them what you feel. :-)
… iv tried for the last 17 yrears ^^
my feeling never really mattered…
Dear sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.Be clam and accept everything and don’t expect something in return. Good things will happen :-)
Even after all this time,
the sun never says to the earth, “You owe me!”
Look what happens with a love like that,
it lights up the whole sky.
-Hafez
If you argue nothing going to change but if you try to explain with a clam heart they will understand.
I wish it was that simple… I’ve tried before but…
okei! wrote:
physically beaten up? as in physical, call 911
I’m not brave enough to do that… + id feel bad afterwards. I might hate dad and dislike mum at so many times but, i can never do it.
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JRoulston D.Div wrote:
If there has been threts on your life, and/or you feel like you are in danger call the police, or children services. In most places it is illegal to make threts, and no one should be forced to do anything.
ik… but i can’t call police cus dad might end up in jail or somin and his reputation… then i also dunt want to make a big thing out of it, i want to solve this but not that way… if i can.
Look,Kido you need to get out of that so called home fast!
Are there any other family members or friends you can turn to?
You say you cant call the cops,if things are so bad you have to,seriously get out of there.
If I had the room I would take you&a bunch of others in.
Really hate kids being abused!really ***** me off!
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Your parents reputation DOES NOT MATTER. your LIFE matters. A criminal act is a criminal act. If your father/ family is commiting one then they should be held accountable.
I understand that you would feel bad. It is your family, but you have to watch out for your safety. please call the police.
Evansent.:) wrote:
Look,Kido you need to get out of that so called home fast!
Are there any other family members or friends you can turn to?
You say you cant call the cops,if things are so bad you have to,seriously get out of there.
If I had the room I would take you&a bunch of others in.
Really hate kids being abused!really ***** me off!
im no kid… pls dont call me that. actually leaving is on my mind… just seriously its never been that simple
Or go to a doctor/priest/minister, and tell him/her the situation. they can help.
okei! wrote:
tenshi wrote:
okei! wrote:
physically beaten up? as in physical, call 911
I’m not brave enough to do that… + id feel bad afterwards. I might hate dad and dislike mum at so many times but, i can never do it.
i’ll just comfort u wid ice cream
hehe thanks. somin i have almost evryday XP (only thing i can eat a lot of withough feeling sick… or the only thing i eat…)
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tenshi wrote:
hehe thanks. somin i have almost evryday XP (only thing i can eat a lot of withough feeling sick… or the only thing i eat…)
Make sure that you still try and maintain a healthy lifestile during all of this. Do your best to exersize and eat well. Doing so will help your mood. And that may be your first step to improving your life.
tenshi wrote:
Evansent.:) wrote:
Look,Kido you need to get out of that so called home fast!
Are there any other family members or friends you can turn to?
You say you cant call the cops,if things are so bad you have to,seriously get out of there.
If I had the room I would take you&a bunch of others in.
Really hate kids being abused!really ***** me off!
im no kid… pls dont call me that. actually leaving is on my mind… just seriously its never been that simple
Sorry,Its a habit of mine,Tenshi.
Whatever you decide to do,I wish you well.
im a muslim but… Iv had a previous post on my problems too.. http://help.com/post/556065-i-think-i… (might make more sense?)
JRoulston D.Div wrote:
Or go to a doctor/priest/minister, and tell him/her the situation. they can help.
… i think ima leave and just leave them be… i dunt want my sisters/ brothers to suffer by what i do either. (its not as bad for them as it is for me … not even close.) i have like 6 sis (some are still infant) n 2 bros so…
JRoulston D.Div wrote:
Your parents reputation DOES NOT MATTER. your LIFE matters. A criminal act is a criminal act. If your father/ family is commiting one then they should be held accountable.
I understand that you would feel bad. It is your family, but you have to watch out for your safety. please call the police.
okei! wrote:
good. what flavor?
vanila, cocolate… or whatever we have really…
Evansent.:) wrote:
tenshi wrote:
Evansent.:) wrote:
Look,Kido you need to get out of that so called home fast!
Are there any other family members or friends you can turn to?
You say you cant call the cops,if things are so bad you have to,seriously get out of there.
If I had the room I would take you&a bunch of others in.
Really hate kids being abused!really ***** me off!
im no kid… pls dont call me that. actually leaving is on my mind… just seriously its never been that simple
Sorry,Its a habit of mine,Tenshi.
Whatever you decide to do,I wish you well.
haha its ok :P i look and seem to think like one anyways… being small n all XP
thx ^-^
JRoulston D.Div wrote:
tenshi wrote:
hehe thanks. somin i have almost evryday XP (only thing i can eat a lot of withough feeling sick… or the only thing i eat…)
Make sure that you still try and maintain a healthy lifestile during all of this. Do your best to exersize and eat well. Doing so will help your mood. And that may be your first step to improving your life.
uh another problem… I cant eat much and i try to force my self but my stomach just cant take much. Breakfast can last me the whole day, or somtimes just some soup or somin… im going to see a doc for that infact, its been like this since jan. before that i ate like nothing mattered :P
i feel for you :) im 30 and may family still controls me directly and indirectly and it’s driving me crazy.
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majedshahee wrote:
i feel for you :) im 30 and may family still controls me directly and indirectly and it’s driving me crazy.
thx :) wow and I’d think Parents should stop once you become an addult at LEAST, and let you do what you want.
in my experiance Mothers especialy always try to make desitions for their babies.
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I think that it is hardwired into parents brains.
Well being told what i should wear or shouldnt, or that i cant do this or that and instead I MUST do this and that… is a little too much dont you think?
I have to agree. I was in the Army Cadets, and have been through many different leadership courses. All of them agree. It is always better to ask to have something done.
Have you tried talking with your parents about that specific thing? (asking, not telling?)
umm its like part of religion.. so i cant wear what i want. like dad is really strict so whatever i wear seems to be ‘too tight’; ‘not long enough’ (this is top he’s talking about) to him; he even rips anything he doesn’t like and says stupid stuff like i shouldn’t even dress like that in front of my own mum… -.-’
its not a matter of asking. i would go ‘isn’t this long enough’ which is a usually ‘no’ in that matter… >.>
once he’s decided on somin; that’s that.
I can apreciate his point of view for what you are wearing. But that wasn’t what I was refering.
I probably didn’t post my idea corectly. :/… What I was trying to say was…
Have you talked to you parents/ father to: instead of telling you to not wear that(or whatever) but to ask you not to wear it.
If this works for you. (It would probably improve your quality of living)
Tell your father that asking you put on something longer/looser/whatever would work just as well as telling you.
I don’t know if what I’m saying is comming out as I want it to, I hope that it is.
Out of curiosity are your parents telling you to do the things that they are because you are more liberal than they are when it comes to religion?
If so it may help to try being a little more conservative. As I’ve stated earlier, you have to look out for your safety. If wearing a longer dress, makes you safer would it not be better to do so?
I’m sure that there is expinencialy more to the situation than your clothing, but…
ah i see,,, i guess your parents are afraid that life in a foregin country with different traditions and religion may affect you specially in this age even though i dont agree with them controling every aspect in your life but since you said its part of religion i understand them,,dont hate me :) listen why not showing them that you’re trustable…try to wear what you want but with modifications i’m sure u’ll be beautiful in whatever..
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oooh. umm no they never did just ordered but… i might get slapped for taht XDD (really i have no freedom to even say what i wanna say so… XP)
JRoulston D.Div wrote:
I can apreciate his point of view for what you are wearing. But that wasn’t what I was refering.
I probably didn’t post my idea corectly. :/… What I was trying to say was…
Have you talked to you parents/ father to: instead of telling you to not wear that(or whatever) but to ask you not to wear it.
If this works for you. (It would probably improve your quality of living)
Tell your father that asking you put on something longer/looser/whatever would work just as well as telling you.
I don’t know if what I’m saying is comming out as I want it to, I hope that it is.
yeah i guess.
umm I’ve never worn a short dress anyways… lol
refraze: hes waaaaaaaay too strict. :P
i cant wear things sleevless n stuff bt…
JRoulston D.Div wrote:
Out of curiosity are your parents telling you to do the things that they are because you are more liberal than they are when it comes to religion?
If so it may help to try being a little more conservative. As I’ve stated earlier, you have to look out for your safety. If wearing a longer dress, makes you safer would it not be better to do so?
I’m sure that there is expinencialy more to the situation than your clothing, but…
majedshahee wrote:
ah i see,,, i guess your parents are afraid that life in a foregin country with different traditions and religion may affect you specially in this age even though i dont agree with them controling every aspect in your life but since you said its part of religion i understand them,,dont hate me :) listen why not showing them that you’re trustable…try to wear what you want but with modifications i’m sure u’ll be beautiful in whatever..
i do. Its just way to much.
with dad not much of a variety i can choose from to wear… might as well wear a pregnet ladies clothes or somin thats 3x sizes bigger XDDD
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