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I’ve never lived the way i want ..

i quit everything for mum,dad and God….i feel like i’m living someone else’s life.

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,005 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

why did you do it? Quitting everything?

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Maybe you should change the things you want?

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

for example i’m a Dentist because dad wanted me to be,,,he thinks this is the best for me ,,,but i realy hate this branch

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

make the most out of it? I mean, some people can’t get jobs…dentistry is a great career. you will make good money!

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tenshi.equal.Angel:3 offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

the 1st part about not living the way you want, sounds a lot like me :P
but i wouldnt quiet some things that are dear to me.
and i kind of feel the same so im with you. (about the part of feeling like living someone elses life)

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,005 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

then you should do what you want. you have a trade use it to pay for reschooling (if that is your choice)

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i do ,,,i have money but not happiness

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,005 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

everyone has the right to pursue happiness. that includes you.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

majedshahee wrote:
i do ,,,i have money but not happiness

work and get money, and then while your working try also working towards what you wanna do. Like you can go to school at night and pursue another career YOU like, or something. right now you can be saving your money for the future! be hopeful! :)

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

it’s not easy to reschooling ,,u know it’s a whole different branch and it’s not just about my job its about every aspect in my life..

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

majedshahee wrote:
for example i’m a Dentist because dad wanted me to be,,,he thinks this is the best for me ,,,but i realy hate this branch

and what you wanted?

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,005 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

no one said life would be easy. but if that is what it takes to make you happy then prehaps that is what it takes.

Myself I was originally trained as a carpenter… However I had to reschool, and now I’m a minister.

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i wanted to be a computer eng or a pilot i wanted to take piano lessons but right now im so busy with this job

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

sometimes i just think that it might be better if i invest my time improving my skills in dentistry other than starting something else…do u think i should go for it and do it?

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,005 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

You should do what makes you happy.
use the dentistry to pay for the schooling. if you’re busy now, then tell the boss, (or if you are the boss) stop booking so many appointments, and follow your dreams.

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (17 minutes after post)

i think i’m gonna give it a try….thank you so much

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,005 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (18 minutes after post)

follow your dreams. I’ll be sure to pray for your success. good luck.

majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (19 minutes after post)

thank you…i really appreciate your help.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Make Plane .
feed Ur dream from the money you earn .

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

it’s not just about my career as i’ve already said its about everything in my life ,,even though its not easy but i’ll try..thanks

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (30 minutes after post)

everything in the first place depends in ur career.

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majedshahee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (38 minutes after post)

maybe i should try putting more effort finding happiness ..i’ll definitally try

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