Family help: I wasnt meant to be born i was a mistake i dont no how to get - Help.com

NO ONE is born as a mistake.
your parents may not have planned to have a baby, but that does not make you a mistake.
God alowed your conception, and gave you the breath of life. He has a plan. Believe in that.

Even if you were not planned that is nothing to be ashamed of. it was not your choice.

You were meant to be here and your sister isn’t being nice saying it isn’t so. A sister is supposed to be a source of support not put downs. She isn’t being very sisterly. Remember, you’re as good as everyone else and don’t allow anyone to say different.

your sister says that to try and put you down. you’re not a mistake, you have a choice to believe that or not, your sister does not have the power to decide that for you.

I agree with the above reply’s here. I had 4 children and only the 3rd one was actually planned. The other 3 were not mistakes they were all a Blessing!

It is a gift to have a child not a mistake. Sorry your sister has to be so mean. She is obviously using this on you because she knows it hurts you!

You are no mistake! You are a Blessing!

Just so you know, there are many children who were conceived unintentionally by their parents. Many kids in your own school are like that, and many of them don’t even know it. So what does it matter?

The Bible tells us that a man and woman will be married and shall become one flesh. You are that one flesh that came from your mom and dad. You are still your parents own flesh and blood, and they love you just as much, right? Your parents would be in deep sorrow for a long time if you suddenly died. To lose a brother or parent or grandmother or a friend is one thing, but nothing compares to losing a child which is your own flesh and blood. Can’t you see your parents care for you, or do you take it all for granted?

Like I said, a lot of kids were conceived as you were, so what?? And I do mean a lot. The ONLY reason your sister exists is because God meant her to be. And the ONLY reason you exist is because God meant for you to be. And that is the REAL truth, and the only one that really matters.

Just be glad that you were born - by whatever means - because life is very great, far greater than anything you can know about now. So understand the truth about your situation, that being born unintentionally is nothing bad at all, and don’t allow yourself to be duped by any lie that your sister tells you or any lie from your own imaginations.

God Himself, when He came to earth in human form (Jesus Christ) was born of a virgin, and was completely born without any intention or planning by His mother who wasn’t even married! So you are in good company!

You are not born by mistake.May be your parents didn’t plan to have a baby but later wished to have.And that is not your fault.That is not your mistake.That was about your parents decisions or in-decisions.Your sister is speaking wrong.Don’t let your sister keep telling this.It’s not your fault of course.Don’t think yourself down…

You arent a mistake. I wasnt necessarily the most planned of children, but im here. Am i a mistake? no, because clearly God wanted me here for something. Everyone has a purpose in the world. Your sisters just a jerk.

wat makes her think she is not a mistake too??? ask ur parents!! How old r u?? r u living seprately?? if u r living together.. think about moving..

your actions decide wat n who u r!!!
Do good deeds!! make urself useful for the family, society n nation!!

is ur sis doing anything that makes her special????

Your soul determines when and who you are born with.
So tell your sister to talk to your soul about it.
Maybe the whole of creation was a giant mistake.
But I don’t think so.

My dear Chloe, your sister would be hard pressed to prove that she was “planned.”

Erikajense wrote:
I’m feeling the same way. I’m adopted, and my birthparents passed certain undesirable mental traits onto me… I feel like all I have brought to this family is pain, and they make sure to let me know that. I’m so sorry that you are going through that; hang in there. Thats just about all we can really do.
Maybe someday we’ll find a place where we belong, and a loving family.

And, apparently, also the mental trait to present your ideas clearly and concisely!