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i think am in love with two girls and i don’t know what to do !

? can anyone explain this for me !

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mintra offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Better to have loved and loved than never to have loved at all

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9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

take them booth out for a while as friends what is the rush to cement and label

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I can’t explain how you’re in love with two girls, that doesn’t make much sense to me, but I advise you to chose between them sooner rather than later.

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R.O.G. offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I agree, but you need to be straight with them both. Let them know what they’re getting in to.

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (40 minutes after post)

This is a very tough spot to be in! I can understand how because it happened to me with 2 guy’s. It was not intentional what so ever it just happened.

Very akward to be honest!

I was honest with both and they both thought I was making up the other guy…..I ended up choosing and honestly choosed the wrong guy! While I dated both I was not intimate with either but was very honest from the start!

Be honest with your self and the girls.

Hopefully you are not sleeping with both that would be a big mistake!

Because you feel for both of them maybe make a list of each girls quality’s the thing’s you like, admire and respect.

Then make a list of dislikes of both girl’s.

Decide what quality’s are most important to you and which flaws “so to say” are not acceptable…

Good Luck!

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Crumpet♡Strumpet offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (42 minutes after post)

A quote for you.
“if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.” johnny depp.

I suspect though you aren’t in love with either. I’m not saying that you don’t like, care for and find both attractive. But love takes time and investment in a person. I suspect if you make that investment in one of them you will look back in time and realise at this point it was not love.

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