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my girlfriend who I love so much hasn’t spent anytime

with me in 3 months she says she loves me and I love her but she only hangs out with her friends I try to break up with her but then she says she loves me and begs me not to go and I never can bring myself to do it she’s killing me I try over and over to get her to care for me like she used to but she does I need help she’s ruining my life and making me question life please someone help me out

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Dr. Ozy online Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (56 minutes after post)

i think enough is enough. you need to protect your heart. i don’t know what crazy pills she’s on, but she’s really hurting you, and I don’t think this is any way you treat someone you truly care about. if she really loved you, she wouldn’t be doing this. make a decision once and for all. and tell her.

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Penelope Jane offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Given the fact that even the threat of you leaving hasn’t persuaded her to change her actions then you can bet on this behavior to continue. She’s continuing to do this because she knows that no matter how much she pushes you all she has to do is cry and you’ll accept the poor treatment she is giving you. Stand your ground and break up with her. She obviously doesn’t care about you. It’s hard to cut ties with someone when you still care and they start putting on the sad act but it is definitely worth it in the end. Find a girl that is worthy of your time and effort because this one certainly isn’t.
I’d also like to point out the fact that girls don’t normally avoid their boyfriends for three months just to hang out with friends. I won’t say it’s definite but there might be another guy involved. Get out of the situation as fast as you can.
No girl is worth feeling that miserable over when there are so many other opportunities for happiness out there.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (4 hours, 56 minutes after post)

High school romance?

Don’t expect much out of a high school romance!

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