girl help: I am exceptionally good looking, better looking than all the girls, yet I can’t get a boyfriend. - Help.com

i think people hate you because you come across as arrogant. you need an attitude adjustment. people won’t like you just because you’re pretty….. not everyone is that shallow….

jump down off your high horse and maybe people will find you more approachable…

What they said ^^^

Nobody likes someone so vein.

You’d be high maintanence & guys don’t want that.

Girls don’t want to be friends with someone with your attitude.

Change your attitude & you’ll probabally get along fine.

maybe you’re at good looking as you think? regardless, i second an attitude adjustment.

“I am exceptionally good looking”
Any guy who would hear you say this would almost instantly think your full of yourself. No normal thinking guy would want to be with someone who places themselves above others.

Stop looking at relationship as social status, start searching for somebody else´s heart. Love comes with understanding… not good-looks.

i agree with the above, your attitude seems to be all wrong. people dont like pompous or desperate.

ive been told i was pretty, guys seem to be attracted to me and i get along better with guys, but they never ask me out. girls just hate me, maybe they see me as a threat coz im usually friends with their boyfriends first. so i kinda know where your coming from. try being more friendly and approachable

Time will go by. Even girls that had “a lot” of relationships and were “popular” during school will be forgotten after you leave school.
The way you handle your perceived challenges that you face daily speaks more about you than what others think of you.

So youre “better looking than all the girls”? But your peers dont notice it?

Whether or not thats true, what are you going to do about it?
People only see what they want to see. And hear what they want to hear.
Would yo just sulk and be sad that no one is paying you attention?
Nah, instead of that, devote yourself to also make your inner beauty just as attractive as your outer beauty.
A quiet and gentle spirit is more beautiful than a 10 beautiful super-models that are loud, annoying, bickering and petty.
You ever heard of a beautiful woman without discretion is like a pig with a gold ring in its snout?
No one ever puts a gold ring on a pig… heheh
At least they shouldnt!

In the same way, devote yourself to literature…
Devote yourself to poetry.
Explore art.
If no one comes around you, then DO STUFF BY YOURSELF FOR A WHILE! =)
May it be positive and edifying though.
Write letters to those that would appreciate it. Get involved with sports.
Read your bible.
And try not to worry so much about the certain guy that will come along and begin to openly show interest in you.
Dont rush it. Why should you?

Often “exceptionally good-looking” people are avoided by “normal” people for the same reason you are exhibiting.

And its the reason all of the former posters have been trying to express to you.
The people that simply look at the outward appearances will MISS the beauty of the inward person. And the reason you perceive that the girls may be “jealous” of you and the boys are “avoiding” you is because they may be focusing on your outward appearance, the same as you are.

Be strong. And try to step beyond all that.
Just be nice to people, regardless if they are nice back to you or want to ask you out.
Try to find out what Love is.
Explore WHO Love is.
Then you will be better able to give it.

-roofdonkey

don’t worry too much about popularity, it seems like high school is the whole world when your in high school but it doesn’t last 4eva and the rest of the world is prety big in comparison. don’t base your self-esteam and identity on how you look too much, you have other good qualities, everyone does, try n focus on them more- i hear communication and listening skills are handy when trying to make friends and keep relationships. good looks are just a bonus. you’ll be okay.

1dgotswag wrote:
I agree with the above ^^ you can’t be full of your self guys don’t like you talking about yourself all day long if you can change that attitude. Then you might will have an boyfriend and also it’s not about your looks it’s matters about your personality.

I can’t get an boyfriend cause i still look like an baby but i am 13 so yeah it’s hard

lol- don’t worry, if your only 13 your better off single for at least another 5 years

probably because you’re annoying.