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3 Reasons to Travel While You’re Young

by Jeff Goins

The other night, I had a conversation with a young woman who had a number of decisions ahead of her, one of which was whether she should go to grad school or travel the world.

I told her to travel. Hands down. No excuse. Just go.
Travel While You’re Young

She sighed.
“Yeah, but…”

Never were more fatal words spoken.

Yeah, but… what about debt?
Yeah, but… what about my job?
Yeah, but… what about my boyfriend (or dog or car or whatever)?

“Yeah, but…” is pernicious. Because it makes it sound like we have the best of intentions when really we are just too scared to do what we should.

It allows us to be cowards, while sounding noble.

Most people I know who waited to travel the world never did. Conversely, plenty of people who waited for grad school or a steady job and traveled still did those things — eventually.

Be careful of the yeah-but. The yeah-but will kill your dreams.

I was so stirred by this conversation that I shared it with a group of about thirty young adults last night, many who were asking these very questions.
The life you’ve always wanted

When you get older, life seems to just sort of happen to you. Your youth is a time of total empowerment.

You get to do what you want. As you mature and gain new responsibilities, you have to be very intentional about making sure you don’t lose sight of what’s important.

So if you still have a reasonable amount of control over your circumstances, you should do what really matters. Because life won’t always be just about you.

During early adulthood, your worldview is still being formed. It’s important to steward this time — to give yourself opportunities to grow. A good way to do that is to travel.

So, young person, travel.

Travel wide and far.
Travel boldly.
Travel with full abandon.

You will regret few risks you take, when it comes to this. I promise you.

There are three reasons to travel while you’re young:
1. Traveling teaches you to live an adventure

When you look back on your life, you will have moments of which you are proud and maybe a few you regret. It’s likely that the following won’t be on the latter list:

* Bicycled across the Golden Gate Bridge.
* Appeared on Italian TV.
* Hiked a Mayan ruin.
* Learned Spanish in three months.
* Toured Europe by train.

They’re not on mine (fun fact: I’ve done all of the above).

What, then, will be?

* Holding back.
* Being afraid.
* Making excuses.
* Not taking more risks.
* Waiting.

While you’re young, you should travel.

You should take the time to see the world and taste the fullness of life. It’s worth whatever investment or money or sacrifice of time required on your part.

It’s not about being a tourist. It’s about experiencing true risk and adventure so you don’t have to live in fear for the rest of your life.
2. Traveling helps you encounter compassion

In your youth, you will make choices that will define you. The disciplines you begin now will be with you for the rest of your life.

Traveling will change you like little else can. It will put you in places that will force you to care for issues that are bigger than you.

If you go to southeast Asia, you may encounter the slave trade. If eastern Europe, you may see the effects of genocide and religious persecution. If Haiti, you’ll witness the the ugly side Western paternalism.

Your heart will break.

You will begin to understand that the world is both a big and small place. You will have a new-found respect for the pain and suffering that over half of the world takes for granted on a daily basis. And you will feel more connected to your fellow human beings in a deep and lasting way.

You will learn to care.
3. Traveling allows you to get some culture

While you’re still young, you should get cultured. Get to know the world and the magnificent people that fill it.

There’s nothing quite like walking alongside the Coliseum or seeing Michelangelo’s David in person. I can describe the city of San Juan and its amazing beaches and historic sites to you, but you really have to see it for yourself to experience it. You can read all the books in the world about the Great Wall of China or The Louvre, but being there is a different story.

The world is a stunning place, full of outstanding works of art. See it.

Do this while you’re still young. Do not squander this time. You will never have it again.

You have a crucial opportunity to invest in the next season of your life now. Whatever you sow, you will eventually reap. Please. For your sake, do this.

You won’t always be young. And life won’t always be just about you. So travel. Experience the world for all it’s worth. Become a person of culture, adventure, and compassion.
“What if I’m not young?”

Travel, anyway. It may not be easy to do, but find a way to get out of your comfort zone. It’s really never too late.

But if you haven’t gotten sucked into the routine of life yet, I implore you — travel. It will never be easier than it is right now for you to do that which really matters.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I have to disagree ^^ Traveling is an amazing and useful experience, certainly. But if you save up money for something instead of borrowing money for it, you save many years of your life trying to pay off debt.

For example, you can easily end up paying more than twice the cost of your house if you have to pay it all off with loans and didn’t have much of a down payment. But if you wait until you’ve saved up enough money to just buy one, you’ve not lost that money.
Of course, you can’t just wait for 10 years or so until you have the money for a house, and sometimes a 20 year loan is worth it compared to waiting for 10 years, and that sort of thing. It’s a balance. But it’s best to avoid debt whenever possible.

And there are other options as well. For example, at the moment I’m both traveling and working ^^ The job I got a month ago covers all my expenses and pays me as well.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Thanks for sharing!

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

One other reason to travel while young is that, as an ol’ geezer, your body is all busted up an’ worn down. Sure limits a person and I’ve talked to plenty of retirees that, in hindsight, wished that they’d said “The HALIBUT!!” and just took of and traveled when first able to do so.
One nice thing about traveling when old, however, is that the ol’ Alzheimer’s lets you experience the same place over ‘n over again as if it’s the first time!

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (16 hours, 48 minutes after post)

I’ll agree with ya:) traveling is amazing ! What you can learn in a month vacation traveling to Europe or where ever.. Learn that your American . Learn that you pay the price for what president is in office an what view they have.. Learn life … Learn your not your car or your house or your ring or watch .. Your not your college degree, your only your face value an if you can survive being American abroad. Learn about beauty an life an travel alone cause you never need a hotel if your cool enough. Learn art an poetry learn life alone an learn yourself. Learn trickery. Learn from gypsy children. Learn European romance. 4 years traveling Europe was enough to see friends live up an down the west coast… Some in newyork too an Florida.. Alot of people visit, but the best is haveing somewhere to go on vacation to there home an there’s nothing like a tour guide of there home.. Thankyou for your thought on a walk though my memories.. If hadn’t traveled, I never would have opened my closed American mind. You never get to figure out your American till you leave

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8 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

I travelled and hiked once, it was not pleasurable. Got tired, sweaty, smelly ..I prefer being in my room with internet.

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8 months, 3 weeks ago (5 days, 22 hours after post)

BigWilly! wrote:
One other reason to travel while young is that, as an ol’ geezer, your body is all busted up an’ worn down. Sure limits a person and I’ve talked to plenty of retirees that, in hindsight, wished that they’d said “The HALIBUT!!” and just took of and traveled when first able to do so.
One nice thing about traveling when old, however, is that the ol’ Alzheimer’s lets you experience the same place over ‘n over again as if it’s the first time!

Travel whilst you can, when you get older you cannot afford it.

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