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Should you be nice to everyone?
I try to be kind to everyone I know and meet.
I am having troubles though with my ex right now. He obviously hurt me and I know I hurt him too, but I stay kind and civil by replying to his texts and not ignoring him or anything. But when he asks me to go for a coffee I have no interest whatsoever. I feel bad saying no though because I feel like I am being mean.. but I don’t want to force myself to hang out with him and just get angry because I still kind of think he’s a jerk and my life has gotten much more positive since we’ve broken up and I just don’t think seeing him is worth it. But is that being mean by saying no?
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