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i’m preparing my heart from breaking apart.

me and my boyfriend taking some space away from each other, he’s insecure and asking for a space to clear his mind. when we’re finally meet again, he’ll come with decision, whether it’s break up or starting over. i could be positive and think everything’s going to be fine, but i haven’t preparing myself from the worst that could happen. i love this guy so much and don’t want this relationship to end, but i can’t do anything if he doesn’t want this anymore. how to make a broken heart hurt less? been through broken heart many times before, but i don’t trust myself to handle this better.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

has there been trouble in this relationship?

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BuckingFastard (J.N) offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

why is this happening?
What else has he said about the relationship?

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8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

he’s depressed and traumatic about his childhood and became so sensitive and insecure that i’ll hurt him the way people used to hurt him. since he’s asking for space, and we’ve talked about that, he wants to be left alone with his thought, but we’re still committed to each other. nothing much i can do. the last time we met, i said i’ll wait until he finally comes with decision, because i love him and he’s worth it. i know i can do this as long as i’m being positive, i’m not well-prepared for the worst.

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