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My boyfriend would rather play video games than be intimate with me.
We’ve been together for a little over 5 months and when we first starting dating, we had sex a lot. Almost every single day, sometimes multiple times a day. Lately, our sex life has been less that satisfying. I know sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship but ive always enjoyed that part of our relationship. Anyways, I try to “seduce him” but it rarely works. We’ll be laying in bed, watching a movie or tv show and I’ll try to reach “down there” on him and most of the time he pushes my hand away and says “watch the show/movie”. Even in the shower together, I’ll try to do stuff and he just goes “well i’m getting out now”. One time when he was playing some computer game, he wasnt paying an attention to me so i thought i was put on a little show for him, so i went in our room and I stripped down to my bra and panties and walked out there and tried to be all sexy and i hardly got a glance. I’ve been feeling that sex with me is starting to feel like a chore for him. When we do have sex, he always wants to finish fast. He hardly even kisses me anymore, i can’t remember the last time we had a good make out session. This whole thing is starting to take a tole on my self asteem. any advice or thoughts?
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