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Don’t know what to do!

I still like my ex… We broke up in April & he’s turned into a player! He likes a new girl every week and then just ***** them over! We’re really good friends now! And Im scared to tell him how I feel! :( I don’t know what to do because it’s hurting me! I like him
That much! :( what can I do is should I do?

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

How can you be friends with someone and, by your friendship, approve of their actions when they are doing all these things? Those poor girls that he keeps harming! Of course you should feel scared to tell him how you feel, you can see his actions and the way he is. Words are cheap, and our personality is reflected more in what we do than in what we say =/

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

sorry to say but “Stay away, far away”
He’s your Ex for a reason
keep it that way, i know it’s hard, like a old comfy blanket
you want to stay wrapped in. doing the same (kinda)
Throw that old smelly blanket out, burn it
Hugs :)

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Crumpet♡Strumpet offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Sometimes I agree that it’s worth trying to rekindle a romance. However, not here. He seems at worst cruel, and at best very immature.

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AdamJason offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Was he a play’a before your relationship with him? If not, it would be like he lost something when you broke up. He’s never going to get the romance back, and it seems neither are you unless you get disillusioned and find someone else.

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vividkitty111 offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Stay away from him. Make new friends and you will meet someone that is worthy of you.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 10 hours after post)

so why’d you break up with him?

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