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i don’t know what to do ..

but i probably seem really stupid.
ok. well .. here i go. i’m in love with a boy 2 years younger. which is probably bad since boys don’t mature as fast as girls. plus , at my age it’s kinda awkward and people judge you if the person you like/love is 2 years or younger. but i can’t help it. i’ve known him for about 2 years now and i do honestly love him. he’s like my bestfriend , and even if i stop liking him more than a friend , i’ll still love him as a little brother. it’s just that we use to kinda have a thing , but i honestly don’t know what our status is at this point. he use to call me baby and girlfriend and babe all the time , even when we weren’t dating. i don’t know if he’s moved on yet , but it kinda seems like it. there’s this girl on our bus and i think he likes her , and she is in my grade also. i know i can’t control his feelings and i want the best for him , and i’ve tried to let him go but i just can’t , and i don’t really want to , because i feel like he’s either just trying to make me jealous , or he’s just going through a phase and will come back to me. i know it’s probably best for me to just move on but it’s so hard. what do you think i should do ?

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

You have known each other for two years. In that amount of time you should have learned the number one key to any relationship is communication. Get him alone and talk things out. Tell him to be honest with you if there is someone else he finds attracted to. She may shoot him down anyway but at least he tried and has no regrets about ‘what if’.

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "Little Brother, girlfriend, feelings, Control, awkward, dating, stupid, Person, Status, moved, Love, Relationships, advice" 9 months, 1 week ago.

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "girlfriend, feelings, Control, dating, younger, Love, Relationships, advice" 9 months, 1 week ago.

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