Maybe I will never be king of the dung hill here in Afghanistan, but then again, I don’t want to be!
Get out of that cesspool . . . so many greater and rewarding things await you ELSEWHERE!
You were originally regarded as an outsider, and then you were regarded as having “poached” the boyfriend of one of the girls in your workplace. He made it look like you were a succubus and that he was your victim.
No future there, my dear Siren! But we know where a future for you IS!
Have you dropped the bombshell at work yet?
Some people just don’t mesh together well.
If it’s you, it’s you.
If it’s not, it’s not.
Either way, the end result is the same, so what difference does it make?
BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
Have you dropped the bombshell at work yet?
Some people just don’t mesh together well.
If it’s you, it’s you.
If it’s not, it’s not.
Either way, the end result is the same, so what difference does it make?
no not yet, im waiting to see if i can be moved to nights, ill know at the end of the week. not gonna say anything if i still have to work with them all. idk, might mention it to the loudest mouth at work and she can go tell troll face whats happened. that will be fun
im being called a homewrecker now, apparently its the crime of the century texting a friend. still cant believe how two faced everyone is. and how he is completely not to blame??? im single i can do what i want, it was him who cheated, not me.
Change jobs. You could earn the same money elsewhere with far less stress. Better still, get a job where you make more money or do more fun and interesting things. That way if you are a b*, at least you will be a rich b*. :)
Siren wrote:
BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
Have you dropped the bombshell at work yet?
Some people just don’t mesh together well.
If it’s you, it’s you.
If it’s not, it’s not.
Either way, the end result is the same, so what difference does it make?
no not yet, im waiting to see if i can be moved to nights, ill know at the end of the week. not gonna say anything if i still have to work with them all. idk, might mention it to the loudest mouth at work and she can go tell troll face whats happened. that will be fun
im being called a homewrecker now, apparently its the crime of the century texting a friend. still cant believe how two faced everyone is. and how he is completely not to blame??? im single i can do what i want, it was him who cheated, not me.
Well, i woulod go against you & tell you that you were in the wrong to do what you did, but she acted first, so you acted out of revenge, making it fair game.
Revenge has to be greater than the original crime after all.
If they’re already calling you a homewrecker & they don’t know yet, how much difference can it make to tell them?
BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
Siren wrote:
BuckingFastard (J.N) wrote:
Have you dropped the bombshell at work yet?
Some people just don’t mesh together well.
If it’s you, it’s you.
If it’s not, it’s not.
Either way, the end result is the same, so what difference does it make?
no not yet, im waiting to see if i can be moved to nights, ill know at the end of the week. not gonna say anything if i still have to work with them all. idk, might mention it to the loudest mouth at work and she can go tell troll face whats happened. that will be fun
im being called a homewrecker now, apparently its the crime of the century texting a friend. still cant believe how two faced everyone is. and how he is completely not to blame??? im single i can do what i want, it was him who cheated, not me.
Well, i woulod go against you & tell you that you were in the wrong to do what you did, but she acted first, so you acted out of revenge, making it fair game.
Revenge has to be greater than the original crime after all.
If they’re already calling you a homewrecker & they don’t know yet, how much difference can it make to tell them?
true. i guess i kinda dont want to lose my friendship with him too. although its pretty much no existant atm since we’re being watched by everyone. he wants to meet me at the gym this week. i really dont get that. if it was me and my relationship was rocky i’d stay well away.
its not your fault you deserve to have real friends and love
Oh my goodness…step back from the drama, stop feeding the drama and it will all stop. It doesn’t really matter how or who started it.
Clear your mind of all these negative thoughts and feelings about yourself and other people. if you can’t be nice, (sometimes it’s impossible!) be neutral. Inner poise and grace dear. Cultivate it and it will free you from that place and from the Drama and emotional turmoil that is clearly holding you back from being happy……good luck and strength to you.
This guy is trying to be the Casanova of the workplace . . . and if he gets another girl to sleep with him and is discovered, he blames it on seduction!
This guy is a mega-loser, Siren, and you can do SO MUCH BETTER than that guy!
The Sherlockian wrote:
This guy is trying to be the Casanova of the workplace . . . and if he gets another girl to sleep with him and is discovered, he blames it on seduction!
This guy is a mega-loser, Siren, and you can do SO MUCH BETTER than that guy!
spot on sherlockian…very good point which i missed.
I think this bloke is LOVING all the drama between you, it makes him feel powerful. By virtue of being a help.com use and I expect, many other reasons, you are worth a trillion times more than this tw*t. Drop him like a hot brick. You never knw, you and she might even become friends and bond over what a w**ker you have been hooked in by. (Don’t worry, we have all been there at some point or another!)
I’m thinking of the Brit officers and NCOs I know . . . and how this guy would slink away in their presence, knowing he couldn’t hold a candle to them!
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maybe its just me
maybe im a super b**** and shes actually super nice and genuine. everyone seems to love her and be on her side. so maybe i am just a horrible person who will never have real friends or love.
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