Love help: Been with partner, for four years,were living together, but moved back out for break. - Help.com



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Been with partner, for four years,were living together, but moved back out for break.

we been arguing alot and havent been the same. Met up with a another bloke. I know if x bf found out he would not want to see me again, i also know he is a trusty kind man. Only problem, is something draws me to other man, that i dont share with x bf,so now i dont know what to do, and if this bloke is just one for a bit fun.

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adalcia offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (12 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Personally, I haven’t seen too many relationships work, if you have to take ‘breaks’.
If that is how the two of you handle issues, by running away instead of working it through, what is going to happen in 5 or ten years, with more stress like kids, mortgage, multiple jobs?

If you and your x want things to work, maybe the two of you should see a couselor.
Otherwise, move on with your life, he isn’t meant to be.

A

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blondy_22 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (12 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Thank you for your advice x

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