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This guy i reall like keeps flirting with me like he

hugs me and makes me feel better when i’m upset and he annoys me all the time but i like it cuz that means he notices me… we’re okish friends but i want more than that. I asked him out b4 like 4 or 5 months ago and he sed he liked me a lil but did want a gf.But than all his friends started talking about his ex and so did he and i tought it was on purpose to make me jelous..Now im realy confuzed on weather or not he likes me for real cuz he flirts with EVERYONE but a lot of ppl say we lok cute 2gether and stuff!!! plz help i want to know if you think he still likes me… Like i know he prob likes as a friend but i kinda know he wouldn’t go out with me… gosh too bad im not asking him out again but i just want him to like kiss me or somethin at graduation. Also, before like a week ago he hugged em when i was crying like 3x on the fourth time i desided to hug him back but he said ewww why did u hug me?? so im really confused!! like he acts like he likes me and everyone sees it but i always seem to think he likes one of my friends cuz he is such a flirt. HELP PLEASE ANY ADVICE WILLL BE USEFUL! o yeah this is also useful… i kinda went out with his best friend but only on one date and he knows but me and the ex desided to be just friends…

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

You’re confused because you’re young and the hormones are raging. Get to know lots of guys as friends. Develop the friendships. You’ll know who’s worth knowing better. When you’re focusing on only one guy, you get too nervous and worked up about it from lack of experience. There’s no rush. You have plenty of time.

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Huntington Station, NY, US | 6 years, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i understand but the thing is that im rfiends with this guy for like 1/2 a year already and he knows i like him and he told me that he kinda liked me like when we first became friends and im only 13 ~ i know im young and i know its not love but i really like him and its driving me crazy thathe wont even give me a chance!!! any ideas on what to do??

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

It’s not a matter of how long you’ve known one guy. Get to know as many as you can as friends. It will give you perspective and confidence. You’re focusing on whether he likes you because you think you will feel better and be happier if he does. I understand that. But that just means you’re pegging your emotions on how he interacts with you. The more friends you have, the less effect just one person will have on your emotions.

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Huntington Station, NY, US | 6 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

ok thanx for ur help

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An Unknown Location | 6 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

I’m having the same problem
i really like this guy, who occasionally flirts with me
but of course he flirts with ANYTHING that moves
i have some friends who are not trust worthy,
and the fact that i liked him got around the school
i’m not sure if he likes me or not.
but everyone i know says we look cute together
then one day at lunch, we were joking around and then
he turned to me and said that I liked him
i blushed, he smiled, and then
turned away.
does anyone have any advice?

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Huntington Station, NY, US | 6 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

yeahh lol im having that EXACT same problem except the guy i like is kinda obnoxious and no1 in the right mind lkes him except me and he rarely brings up the fact that i like him … only once in a while tho like everyone else like all of his friends bring it up daily… how old r u? im 13

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 8 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

hey! i really no what u mean! there is this guy at my school who always flirts with me. i kind of like him and i think he likes me 2. when he flirts with me, i just flirt back. we r in differant classes though and our friends get on us saying oooo u guys were totally flirting u guys should go out. niether 1 of us likes that. but what i say is that if u really like him, it will all b worth it.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (2 years, 8 months after post)

well, im havin the same problem…me n mii guy bf have kno each other since 4th grade n im in 7th but he’s supose to be in 10th but he’s in 8th he’s 3 1/2 years oldier than me n more mature anywayz i like him n wen i asked him out he said were just better off being friends n i said ok n just bkuz i like you doesnt mean we cant still b the same kind of friends but now he acts alit different but he still hugs puts his arm around me and holds mii hand….wht dos tht mean?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 years, 6 months after post)

This guy at my college has been flirting with me for about 4 weeks but he has not told me he likes me yet. He always talks to me and I talk to him before I go to class, he hugs me before we say goodbuy, he says I look pretty sometimes, he called me princes, he trys to make me smile so I am really confused if he likes me. I have a crush on him and I dont know what to do. I want him to tell me that he likes me but Im afraid that wont happen.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 years, 10 months after post)

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