She drives me mad both positive and negative.
I’m a very strong man, mentally that is. But for some time now (ever since I started having feelings for this one girl), I truly started losing myself.
The thing is, she told me she felt something for me, but at that time, she was dating some other guy (well actually he taught they were dating, big misunderstanding and stuff). So she “broke up” with him. But we both said, that she had some thinking to do (about her past) before falling into a new relationship. It’s been 6 weeks now, and I think she’s falling for one of her exes again.
Now I know this guy is bad news, he’s about to go to jail and stuff. She knows the same thing, but doesn’t want to realise it (ever experienced that?). The hard part tough, is she keeps telling me she has feelings for me as well. But it’s too hard for her to make decisions right now.
Truly, I don’t want her to make a decision right away, I want her to really think it all trough before ever making any decisions. But whenever I tell her this other guy is bad news, it seems as tough I’m just telling that to convince her to choose me.
Sometimes I truly start believing she’s schizophrenic. Cause the girl I know, is the girl I fell in love with; but the girl she can be whenever she texts or talks to the bad guy, well I truly think she’s gonna make the wrong decisions. And she truly hurts me, … hurts me bad.
You know, after typing all of this, I started thinking, perhaps she needed to find her way to this website more than I did.
Still, … any toughts on how to handle this entire deal?
Thanks in advance,
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