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I was so depressed now a days…

i just separated with my husband 2yrs ago. I met one guy here and we became friends….after a while he started saying that he enjoys my company…to the fact that he has family in our country…now he’s leaving…i know that i dont have to be confused, i just need some adviced how to deal with my emotion…actually, i am not so sure if i love him or i am just longing for someone who will give me comfort or affection.
Can you help me?

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olden offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (18 minutes after post)

go in prayer and just open your heart to Jesus
it will help and make you feel better.
get rid of all the cropped up emotions

Blessings

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qwerty_200_ offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Im with you…im as depressed.

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cfreemantrack offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (6 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Maybe you love him in the sense that you were with him so long that you don’t know/remember how you lived your life prior to meeting him. Do you love him because you need him and only him or because you feel he has been there too long to let go of? Just know that you have your close friends to help you out, and your family. I understand your feeling.

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heart_beat0 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (8 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Thank’s guys for the messages…to be honest im ready to lose him…why?? coz he has his family in our country…it felt like dying but i have to accept the fact that i just borrowed him from someone just to fill-in some loneliness in other country….i maybe attached with him….maybe i already fall for him…but the reality stills awakend me that i can’t be with him forever coz he belongs to someone else..i just need some strenght…my family is not with me…i need some more encouragement…my mind says i’l let goof him…but my heart is hurtin…i just tried to enjoy the few more days i will be with him…he’s leaving next month…hope i can erase him in my heart…

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