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Hi, let me start out by this i’m 13 and i live in cali.

i’m just your avage girl but i smoke,drink and now i’m into drugs.. i need help. i cant tell my mom she’s kill me! then on top of that i want to break up with my boyfriend but im afriad to it’s not that i’m dont want to hurt him but its the fact that, he’ll get someone to jump me.. he is a part of this little gang and if i break up with him he hasalready told me you do anything stupid you’ll regret it.. I’m Scared. i have no one to turn to.. with anything can anyone help… and how could i get him To go away..?

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Mikey offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (6 hours, 31 minutes after post)

You might need to involve the police. Telling a girl that isn’t something he should be doing.

As far as your problems with bad habits, drugs and otherwise… That’s a choice you get to make. If you don’t want to do drugs, don’t do them. Next time someone passes you a bowl just say pass?

Mikey

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tuffy_nic offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
IN | 3 years, 3 months ago (12 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Why r u playing wid ur life?Just live it peacefully.Make determination in ur mind not to smoke,not to drink and not to take drugs.It will definitely help u.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (13 hours, 36 minutes after post)

You may need professional and and by the way honesty is the best policy with parents. if you need help believe that’s all they want to do. but hiding and lieing is what gets you in trouble. Also there are alternatives for teens. Any local teen center or counselor can get you in touch with all kinds of options. But please whatever you do. do it now. You do not want to have to end up in the wrong place. ANd as far as the boyfriend one threat with a cop is all it would take to get him and his buds off your back. always always find a straight peer to keep you on the right track. and always buddy up with them where ever you go. hope this helps praying for you.

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allzvanity offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (14 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Your Mother loves you! Tell her… Wouldn’t you rather She “KIll you in The “Good sense of the word. Than “HE kill you in the “Final!.. sense of the word!!!
You need to “LOSE him, he is not for any female, If he has to keep her through intimidation, and fear.
*Telling your mother will take the “Power away from him, And give you genuine Love and Support that you NEED!~ very Much right now!…

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

You’ve already gotten some good advice, but I also wanted to let you know that you can also call a teen hotline and get some advice and perspective on both your boyfriend and your drug usage. If you are too scared to talk to your family, try calling a hotline first.

I’ve collected few links for you to check out, but there are more if you do a Google search for Teen Crisis Hotlines and include the name of your city or county.

http://www.teenlineonline.org/
http://www.girlsinc.org/ic/page.php?id=3
www.safenetwork.net/teens/teens.html
www.lacaaw.org
http://www.breakthecycle.org/
http://www.teenrelationships.org/help…
http://www.theantidrug.com/ei/resourc…
http://www.endabuse.org/programs/disp…

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link225 offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

First…13 is way too young to have any of these problems. Quit the smoking, drinking and drugs. You have only been on this earth for 13 yrs. Don’t you want to be around for 60 more? You oviously felt adult enough to do the things you did, now you need to be adult enough to go to your mom, and tell her everything. With a guy like that threatining you, your gonna need your mom to help and protect you. Hopefully you are one of the people who makes mistakes and learns from them and not repeat them. Get your life straight. Think about where you want to be 10 yrs from now and do what it takes to get there. Best of luck to you.

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