Love help: Hello, i need help on my views on my relationship…. - Help.com

I don’t really know what to tell you but I have invited some people that may be able to help

go on holiday together for 2weeks by yourselves somewhere with a crappy nightlife and just do things together during the day. if either of u get fed up its not love. thats my crazy opinoin

or turn to drugs…..thats a joke

maybe you just think too much, it always tends to make me worry about stuff

hi kam, i have lost 2 of the most important persons of my life bec of some crappy imagination that they were fooling around though i knew eversince that they have remained loyal.

i want you to try the thing that i was too proud to try: to stay patient and true. in that way, you would never feel thesame regret that i had when i lost them.

i hope your feel better now liiloes daisy

yes it has been years ago. feel better and life isnt over yet, is it? :-)

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People also do things and sometimes very strange and/or hurtful things to each other also for a reason. Sometimes that reason is not even consciously known by the person doing the hurting.

If you have no real reason to distrust him, you may be creating a self fulfilling prophecy.

You can see past as being a player in more than one way.
a) Hes a player and will never change.
b) He was looking for something and found it.
c) He was building up his ego but has since discovered the beauty of a meaningful relationship.

We all have deep emotional needs that we may not even be aware of. If both of you can fulfill each other’s needs on that level then I would not worry about him cheating on you. You need to discuss what your needs are. And more importantly, you should both be individually happy with yourself. Please never expect a partner to fulfill your shortcomings or fill a void. Fulfilling needs are good but expecting a partner to fill a void that has been left by the shortcomings of our parents and childhoods will only spell disaster in the long run…

Sorry I’m rambling a lot. I hope this helps. If I was unclear, please feel free to ask me anything.

sweetheart you can’t have it both ways, you say he is a player and you are worried when he is out, then you say you trust him. I don’ think you do, because you knew him before and you know what you a getting, re-think this one okay.