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i only eat marmite sandwichs and i hate it cos i feel arrrrrrghhghghgh i need help.

does anyone else only eat a few things. i need a place to go away from prying eyes so i can try food without having to listen to my mind in overdrive thinking about what people are thinking about me

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fightingtiger offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

What’s a marmite?

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! marmite is a type of savoury spread used for sandwichs and itsa bloody awesome!

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nainachick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Tommy, that sounds an awful lot like anorexia. Fear of what others will think of what we are eating, restricting food and types of foods. Have you ever considered you have this disease?

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (34 minutes after post)

yeah i have but its been like this my whole life my parents say i started spitting out all the food they gave me at 2years they took me to doctors who gave me a diet that was ok but its still limited. paries where theres a bbq i often get forced to eat a burger but its just the taste and texture.often even when im eating food i like i have to really put in a lot of effort just to chew and swallow. sometimes i have to shake my leg or something to take my mind off it

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punkrockprincess offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I’m still in shock over the fact you like marmite. You need to stop worring about what other people think about you and start thinking about yourself, eating marmite sandwiches cannot be good for you. Take the risk, and start, it will be hard at first, but you will get used to it. Start with something simple, maybe another kind of sandwich and convince yourself its marmite and work from there.

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nainachick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (39 minutes after post)

I would start with a dietician that works with eating disordered people. I would definatly consider this a disorder, and especially because it has been present most of your life. I would also try psychiatry to see where it came from and if any part of it could be treated medically. I would also see if there is a counsellor who practices hypnosis. It’s not THE answer, but removing negative associations from certain healthy foods would be a great place to start.

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (40 minutes after post)

thanks and i know but its just so bloody difficult. can you recommend something for me to buy tommorow and i promise to eat it (some of it)

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nainachick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (46 minutes after post)

That has to come from you. I could say tuna and an apple, but if you couldn’t stand tuna, and the thought of an apple made you want to gag, then my idea really was for nothing. If your health and well eing os your primary concern, you’ll take EVERY suggestion, and try it. But it has to start with you. If you are just waiting to be told what to do, then you can reject every idea, and remain stuck.

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (48 minutes after post)

ur right i just gagged thinking about tuna but im gonna eat an apple right now anyway thanks for your help im off bye!

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (50 minutes after post)

my brains a bloody headdoer

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (50 minutes after post)

I would try hypnotherapy

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

You have got to find a way to eat other things besides those sandwiches. It does not hurt to really like a food. Just make sure you are eating a balanced diet and are not eating them to excess. Limit yourself to one a day. I have my own food that I love. Its Popcorn. Sometimes I eat it everyday but sometimes I take a break. But I can go for months eating it everyday. But I also make sure I am eating a very balanced diet besides eating the popcorn. When people make you feel guilty enough that you have to hide your addiction and that is not good. You need to talk to the people who are making you feel bad. tell them that you need to not feel judged for liking the food. If not then talk to a counselor about it. If it is making you feel bad about yourself you need to do something. You need find a way to work through it. My suggestion is for a month have one sandwich a day. Then for two weeks a sandwich every other day. Continue this trend until you are down to once a week. Just a idea.

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 days, 5 hours after post)

it does sound more appealing than tuna. i just need to go out and actually buy it.but being a lazy stoner doesnt help. thanks for the recommendations. any recommendations really do help me because my mind goes blank when i try to think for myself and then i normally have a sandwich or crisps

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 days, 13 hours after post)

A phobia of eating in front of ppl?

That used to be me. I have no idea how I got over it.

Wait. College cafeteria: where no one cares what you eat, even the silverware.

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 days, 2 hours after post)

its not a phobia of eating in front of people. but it doesnt help if i am.. i tend to dislike the taste of nearly everything…which is probably just me telling myself in my head”this is gonna be disgusting” then when im eating it i pull all sorts of faces to show my disgust..try to swallow then scream “GET ME A DRINK! NOWWWWWWW!” and thats what i dont like people to see.

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Warrane, 06, AU | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Ever tried Vegemite?

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

yeah i hate it. and twiglets and bovril and i didnt like marmite flavoured crisps much either when they were out. i just hope the people who make marmite never go out of business! but maybe that would be a good thing? who knows

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Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Post a repTommt before you try something just imagine in your head how good it would be and without opening your eyes eat it and see if that makes a difference.

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

sounds scary but definatley something that would work i suppose.
but where would i go to do something like that? not at home with family looking at me saying “why do you have a blindfold on?”
im gonna do something like that tho in a few weeks when everyone goes on holiday exept me.FREE HOUSE! partayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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JustJen offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Sneak in the bathroom or anywhere know one else is.

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tommysize offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

ha! i can imagine gettin caught! and its a pretty funny thought.
i just signed up on some website where theres other people with a thing about food looking for someone else who is in the same situation as me so i can go out and it new food with them….bit of a longshot tho. but im just gonna try everyway possible to get out of this eating habit of mine. thanks for the suggestion

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Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

That is great and I truly hope that you can get over this because it is so much wonderful food out there waiting for you to try. God Bless!

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Prickwillow, I9, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

who knows i might even die a fat man!

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