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gamemaster22
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Whenever a person asks me out/tells me they love me I dont believe them.

If a person shows emotions like that towards me I just dont believe them. It doesnt matter what they do I dont believe them. Im normally the person you have to ask out if you lose a bet or something, it always seems to be a joke. Does anyone know how to stop me from feeling that way?

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pumpkin offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

You just have to learn to, I was the same as you once, then I decided the best way to deal was to ACT like I believed them, after a while I actually did!

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Help me with: This isn’t so much a question.
Anonymous #
1 year, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Yes! STOP IT!

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shadow_soul121 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

I used to be like that…still am sometimes but only when it comes to people i don’t know or the people who really are doing it as a joke…

I don’t really know how i got this far…i guess i had to go through some stuff to get to this point…it’s hard to explain sorry for not being able to really help.

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getto_girl7 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (12 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I have written a poem for the heartache that i use to feel from my ex… he would always say the words.. but they never meant anything because he would never show it…please read it and feel the words that i have written… understand them and believe them… i have actually had this poem printed in a book…

I love you

I love you
Are just words
Always spoken
Only heard

My heart
Cant feel words
Saying i love you
Is really obsered

I need to be shown
I need to feel it
I need to know
You really mean it

Those words
I want to throw away
Never to be heard
You could never say

Making me know
Making me feel
Your love is true
Your love is real.

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**Rainbow Girl** offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 74 #
US | 1 year, 5 months ago (15 hours, 10 minutes after post)

It’s Hard For You To Trust. So You Wont Beleve Them.You Have To Open Up And Trust.Beleve Them. I know This Wont Happin Over Night But You Can Work On It…

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sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
London, 17, GB | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 hours, 30 minutes after post)

its sounds like ur worst fear is being made a fool of if u say i love u back and they then take the mick dont worry! i have this problem all the tyme but think has the person hu’s asked you been giving you subtle hints that they may like you just think of who the person is is it likelty to be someone who is going to take the mick out of you?
hope this helps!

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tellingatalltale offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days after post)

Pretend to believe it. Act as if you believe it. The rest will follow.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 5 months ago (3 days after post)

I will believe…

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**Rainbow Girl** offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 74 #
US | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 16 hours after post)

At Times It’s Hard.To Let The Other Person Know How You Feel.Something You Have To Work On.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 16 hours after post)

Once bitten, twice shy…
Give it another try…
Sooner or later, you’ll meet the right one.
Give it time…

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**Rainbow Girl** offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 74 #
US | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 16 hours after post)

That Is True Anonymous.Someone Will Love You For You.Yes I Sed The L Word.It’s A Good Thing It Will Work Out.

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