computer help: Boyfriends soon to be ex… got into my email and printed off emails and took them to her divorce attorney. - Help.com

how could she have gotten in your email. and how is she gonna be able to use that. if you or anyone gave her access, i don’t think you can do much. ask your boyfriend, and if he agrees, go to the police. and his laywer should file to have the emails inadmisable. also, don’t date married men

sorry, posted anon by accident. o.k. if he has a lawyer, ask the lawyer what to do. this might be a blessing in disguise. she might have violated some law, and the lawyer could offer not to press charges if she agrees to certain conditions. get what i mean. but if you have a lawyer, let him do his job. and were the emails really that bad?

I am assuming that your ‘friend’ has his own attorney; in which case, he/she should be the only person handling the legality aspects of the purloined emails.

If I were you, I’d lay low. I think, perhaps, you may have already contributed more than enough to the chaos and it’s likely, that anything more you do, will only add fuel to the fire.

I suspect that you’re feeling like a victim right now but, think about it; if you knew he was married, than the only real victims, in this scenario, are the wife and children.

I’m guessing, of course and I may be wrong. But even if she was trailer-trash/pyscho-*****, I’m betting this really hurt her.

Take the lesson learned (NEVER write ANYTHING that you would not, ultimately, want the whole-wide world to read) and get as far away from this mess as you can.