Love help: i have had feelings for this certain guy for a long time.

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i have had feelings for this certain guy for a long time.

one of my friends is now going out with him but i still have these feelings. me and him are close friends and hangout alot. when i think how he and my friend are going out it hurts… i think i love him and i dnt kno what to do. i have tried so hard to change the way i feel but i cnt and i really dnt kno what to do…????

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dewrgleisio 0 #
US | 2 years, 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Learn more about the guy. If it doesnt sound too farfetched, astrological data can tell you a lot, especially if you know the exact date of birth. Learn more about your feelings. Being able to sift through impulses and illusions more efficiently and with less damage to yourself and others in the process makes everything you do far more solid. Some people call it a gut check, others might say they analytically resolved some sort of compatibility sumation. If youre brave enough, ask the universe any way you know how. The dual universe we live in is the closest thing to the singularity of existence, thats why love at its zenith is as noticeably powerful as it is. Chin up.

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mountainman 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (15 hours, 54 minutes after post)

possibly the harder you try to change your feeling, the more the hurt stubbornly holds forth. if possible let it hurt until hurt gets boring. Move on to other interests. believe life is possible without reminding your self of the pain. hang in there. mountain man.

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everythingisconnecte 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

If you are going to hurt your friend I would distance myself from the guy. Friends first

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wea2 changed the tags on this post: they were "friends, love, Friends (disambiguation), change, guy, feelings, Close, Hard, Feel, hangout, Relationships" 2 years, 8 months ago.

wea2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

if you think, you can’t live without this, pray about it and ask God to show you direction in your love life life, and he will do it if you believe. wea2

loveya16 1 #
Meridian, MS, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (5 days after post)

I know how u feel! i’m in the same situation but my friend isnt going out with him……………………….yet………i really cant help u because if i could i could help myself

wcsister 4 #
Guernsey, WY, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

i have the same feeling for a friend of mines bf. only she kinda took him from me, cause we were dating than she did the hole he wants me to tell u that he just wants to b friends and she wants me to tell u that she just wants to be friends. and honestly u never get over someone u love or loved. i say take him from her. or at least see if he feels the same way about you first.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

Well what I can tell you from EXPERIENCE is that it will hurt you for awhile. but sooner or later your friend will realize that she is hurting you by going out with that guy. and when she does realize that she will come apoligizing to you. and if she doesn’t come apoligize then she really isnt worth haveing you as a friend. so i would say DUMP her as a friend and go find a new one…

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keekee 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

maybe .. you need to just let the guy know ur feelings and talk to ur friend as well..

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