i am in the same situation. Ive got the same problems. Lucky u, both of u r working on it n so im happy for u. For me, its one sided so it sucks.
Hope tat both of u work out well :)
this i say…love will lead u through thick and thin. i could not do much but wish u well. can that love still wait for some more weeks? if u guys could not afford it yet then maybe in a few weeks u will.
qwerty_200_ I have been where you are at. I really hope that you can find a way to be friends with that person and find a way to let go. You are better off that way. The heartache is not worth is. Love is so hard if they do not feel the same. I am sorry. I just dont want you to be hurt like I was. You will find someone special I promise.
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Well apparently you misunderstand. I live in California and he lives in Chicago. I have been going to school full time. There is not alot of time for a job when it comes to that. I am not asking for money. If someone wants to help that is great but I am not asking anyone to give it to me. He has money coming in and was trying to geet me to chicago so we can finally meet. No I am not irrisponsible and I dont usually ask for help. In fact I pride myself in independence. I hate to ask for help. I feel like this time I should. No one has to do anything for me. I just want to believe in miracles and that my faith in humanity is not wrong. I should have known someone would judge me…Sorry I bothered you.
hello sweetie, finally i am in ur page and we can discuss things here. smile! im glad he is doing muuch to get you and him together. u might be lonely not having him around but i like your enthusiasm, if things are meant to be then u deserve it best.
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I am sorry that you feel that way. FotoStan you are not the one taking the risk. I am completely aware I am taking a risk. I know you think your helping me and I respect that. I knew there would be someone that would think I am stupid. I know the statistics and I know how bad it can be. But I have met people off the internet before and my brother met his wife on the internet. I know other people who have done the same. I am really careful about who I meet and what I do. For god’s sakes there are mail order brides and forever ago people were forced to marry people they did not know. Think what you want. But I will tell you this. I believe in god and when he tells me to do something and that something is right it always is.
lilies and daisies thank you for your kind words. I like to chap with people and help them where I can. :) thanks for you positive and gentle energies.
it’s okay morningmis, u are welcome. take care and keep in touch. you have done something i have always feared to do…getting married! lol
Oh dear I have not married him. We want to meet because we think that is what we want. However one can not make a choice like that until you meet them and can see in thir face that the feeling are real as they sound. But you are kind. Add me as a friend I am going to add you too.
my girlfriends have always lived really near me. one even two doors away! i suppose that doesnt help your situation though.errrrrrrrrrr sorry
tommysize its okay. I can understand how difficult it would be for you ro relate. Thanks for posting though. Its nice to know that you care.
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FotoStan I respect that. I really do. I believe in traditional values too but I also am very realistic in knowing that with today’s economy the traditional family is not always possible. His situation makes it impossible even though he has tried to pay for my ticket or to come to me. We have been trying for months to meet. I am at my wits end so I thought I would try to ask for help. Maybe that was a mistake.
Maybe if both of you try to save back a little at a time it’ll make the seemingly impossible more managable? It may take a little doing but then anything worth having is worth putting in the effort. Just don’t give up hope. $200 seems like alot when you don’t have it but look at it this way…$10, $20, $25 a week is fairly easy to sock away and adds up quick. Go for your dreams and I wish you all the luck in the world.
Guess what people he killed himself all of this does not matter anymore.
excuse me? whats happening?
I am so pissed off at his roomate. Turns out he was giving me a load of ****. His roomate ******* lied. Why would someone do that? That is not something you should **** around about. God I am so angry right now.
it seems like there’s trouble happening there. come back when u are ready to give us the details.regards.
Okay you misunderstood my post and that is fair enough. I was talking about the friend that I love and that I thought killed himself. I was talking about the guy that currently lives with him. God it is suck a stupid thing… And maybe I am a ******* idiot in believing in him. But what can I say I keep hoping that the fairy tales and falling in love is real. Tell me its unrealistic but it does not change how I feel
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