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jbreuni

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I am a married profesional male 42 and I am going through what I consider the most difficult period of my life. Two years ago I went into business for myself and failed primarily due to the hurricanes. I am still in the bankruptcy phase and getting close to having that resolved. As a result of the bankruptcy we had to sell our home that we had lived in since our children were small. I have felt terrible about this since the move. I had also been out of work for over a year becuase nobody would hire me. I am a talented motivated individual but somehow have lost my path. I recently was hired in my field of profesion and life seemed like it was going to get back to normal. Then last Saturday night I recieved a DUI and I am looking at significan fines and jail time. I am a smart, loving and considerate person. I am having difficulty consintrating on my job and feel anxiety and depression to the point I think about ending it all. This typically is not me. I feel lost and hopless and and constantly scared of what will happen next. My family, wife and children are all paying the price for my decisions and I am struggling to keep my sanity. Please Help!!!

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Dajch 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I dont know how you feel about God but now would be a good time to seek Him. God has placed you ruler over your household and Loves you and your family… Through Him All thing are possible! Turn your Family onto the right path and God will be more than willing to direct you. In my past situations Crying out to God for Help Saved me…I pray it Helps you I found my Church through www.calvarychapel.com mabe you can find one aswell…Lord Bless You and your family as you seek Him!!! I will pray for you aswell.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (30 minutes after post)

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maritess_ascan 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (7 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Hi, I think you really need a medical and psychological help. It is not unussual to go through depression and anxiety after all the stressors in your life. Depression is not a sign of weakness. It involves chemical changes in your brain. Some people who has it all experience it. If you get to a point that you want to hurt yourself or others, it is time to seek professional help and start taking antidepressant. Pls. start ASAP. For your sake and your family’s sake.

caitlynrose #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (21 hours, 33 minutes after post)

You need to be mentally evaluated.
Why?
Because what they find can make the difference between jail time or out patient counseling.
Judges are tough. But they are also fair.
If it is found that much of your recent proclivity is based on severe depression, and this was your first offense, then there is every possibility that your case might be resolved in a much better manner than you might have hoped.

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caitlynrose #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (21 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Additionally, when you are evaluated, you will have someone to talk to that is a non-threatening 3rd party, and if you are in need of medication, they will be able to give you what you need.
There is light at the end of the tunnel if you will only start moving……you can’t stay where you are.

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te10028 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day after post)

i no how you fell im married and my married is falling apart and i don’t no what to do about it is mom is beening mean to me and telling me that i will never get a job and yelling at me what im i going to do so i no what you are going thorw

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day after post)

Hi. I’ve been through what you’re going through…from your children’s perspective. My father has had numerous DUIs, lost the only childhood home I have ever known to the bank, and abandoned my mother with no home, no divers license, and no job (all within the last year). Just remember that your actions do significantly affect your loved ones…I would much rather have my screwed-up dad in jail, not dead as a result of suicide. Take the advice of the other posters and see a counselor about your depression. My dad was too proud/stubborn to admit he was unhealthy, and as a result, he’s lost his family.

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