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Ok theres this guy who I had a crush on since i was

in the 4th grade he’s like the most popular stud in the school,evry gurl likes him but not as much as i do,its been almost 8 years now im a jr and he’s a senior in high school.Im bestfriends with his lil brother who’s like a grade under me and he knew how much i liked his brother,he always told me to go up to him and talk to him and tell him how i felt about him,but everytime i did that i just lost my words to say i couldnt breath,mouth was all dryed up,heart stoped.i was scared and nervas.He found out my 9th grade year that i liked him but not how much i really did like him.We talked all the time and stuff he says im very hott but like i dont kno if he likes me the way i like him.well just last weekend we hung out at my friends house and we kind of did you kno what well we did do it,it was just so sweet everything about it was great i was so happy just bein in his arms and him kissin all over me,and me bein his first,after that night i just feel in love with him even more cause that first kiss,firts hug and first time wit him was perfect.I been thinkin about that night alot,was it a one night thing or is it possible we can be together?Should i ask him out or should i wait for him to ask me?I dont know im so confused.

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everythingisconnecte offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Try talking to him and seeing if you are on the same page. Do not just ask him out. Try to figure out he feels, then explain your feelings and see how things go.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

WTF?

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BKH199 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (3 hours, 33 minutes after post)

I think you should try to get to know him better, find out what he likes and maybe he’ll start to like you. It worked for me=) Good Luck!!!

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cmusicga offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (22 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Slow Down! You may be disappointed. Guys at his age think of relationships totally different than girls do. A talk should definitely take place before anything else transpires.

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squaddeep offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Richmond, VA, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Hi,

Definitely ask him out. He may be just as nervous as you are, and if so, a next move may never get made. It seems as though you guys have known each other for a long time, so see where this can lead. There is nothing like falling in love with a good friend. You know each other, and if all doesn’t work out, more than likely, you guys will still be friends.

Good Luck

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farley123ab offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 years after post)

ok umm just ask him! i mean if u liked eachother for that long then you should have confidence

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