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I think it would be better for everyone if i died.

I know ppl say this but it seriously would.I have a disorder that makes ppl around me have to be at my beck and call and they have to help me a lot.I snap at ppl and even though they help me i make them feel worthless.I cant stop it.I have tried and i can’t.I should just die n do them a big favor so they can live their life witout someone making them feel bad or being a burden.

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everythingisconnecte offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 minute after post)

What is your disorder?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i have a panic disorder so i can’t go anywhere without having one of my family members with me

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everythingisconnecte offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

That does not seem so bad on your family. they probably enjoy spending time with you, and even so death is not the answer and suicide is not a choice. it happens when pain is greater than what we are able to handel

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

it’s ok i won’t kill myself because i am a coward and i can’t even commit suicide.anyway i am leaving thanx for ur reply

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kalevolive offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Bloomfield, MI, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Have you asked them? I wouldn’t assume that everyone would be better of if you died unless they said so, which I doubt is the case. Most of the time we can’t see the good we do from our own perspective. Just hang in there, and I hope things turn up for you.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (32 minutes after post)

don’t kill your saelf because if you do think about how the other people might feel.they are going to feel sad.after you snap at the person you should say sorry.it’s not worth killing yourself over.just be strong and you’ll be alright.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (35 minutes after post)

I have that, too. I take Cymbolta. It is a miracle. I also have had Phycholgy help. I had an abusive husband and he did that to me. I am now engaged to a wonderful man, and happy and will always take cymblota. love, bee. I am 75

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doedoe22 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

don’t feel that way. i know what u r going thru but on the other side. my husband is the sick one and i work and take care of our home and him. my life would be empty with out him. when u love someone , u would do anything to have them around for as long as u can. u r not a burden but a joy in ur family’s life. how sad ur family would be without u.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

changa hoya

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