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Ok, so recently I took a liking to yaoi, shōnen-ai, gay fan-art to be frank.

My friends hate me for it and say I’m discusting. I don’t understand wether I should drop something I like in order too have friends that will think I’m perverted, or to go solo until I find someone like me.

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Thepp offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Do your own thing, be your self and let people that like you. Like you for what you are. If they dont like you the way you are that sadly is there loss.

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nainachick offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (11 hours, 22 minutes after post)

The only things in my life that I ever regretted was the times I betrayed myself.

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Noctua offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Kidbrooke, I8, GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 week after post)

If they are real friends they will learn to accept your like of the fanart, if not i’d personally go solo for a while.

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KawaiiKitsune134 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Hollywood, FL, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 month after post)

If they don’t like what you’re doing, they aren’t your real friends. Do what you want, and don’t let your fear of losing friends run your life. You’ll make a bunch more in the future. ^^

I absolutely adore yaoi and shounen-ai. If you need any friends, email me! ^.^ ((email removed))

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stardragon1 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Columbus, IN, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

real friends will accept the way you are and besides yaoi isn’t something easily overcome XD

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Manchester, I2, GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 months after post)

Hey watz up 1 thin i never regret 4 ages is ……………………

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dancing_zombie_gir offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

I like yaoi and my friends dont mind (most of my friends are straight guys- now that’s saying something !!) . Your “friends” should accept you no matter what . If they don’t then they don’t deserve you .

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