Person help: has anyone ever been the world to someone else, given them everything they could and more, and has that person treat them like they hated you? - Help.com

I have. I try my best and give it all to my bf but he doesnt seem to care. Tats makes me cry alot

y dont u ask her?

My guy confuses me too much till i really dont know how does he feel

its confusing how someone can give so much, and be treated like a worthless bag of crap. i’m begining to think that it is all my fault

You know what?
that really spoke to me cause my ex treated like he was made out of friggin gold and diamonds I mean i baked him cupcakes and what he did was call me b*tch and then when I didnt take it anymore he just ended up liking the next girl that came a long. And I realized its not my fault because all I did was give him a taste of his own medicine.

So yeah for experience you need to know its not your fault. And you have to think is being treated like a worthless bag of crap…worth it? Is it honestly worth it.

If she didnt care about your feelings…why should you care about hers?

Yeah you are but that is totally sweet that you wouldnt be disrespectful to others just you know you can’t let her take advantage of you you’ve got to defend yourself.

this remind me of my sisters last relationship and man oh man she had to go to therapy cause he was doing the same exact thing but one day she got the courage to say you know what this isnt right just build up the courage or maybe you can talk to someone professionally about it because if you never speak your mind… how will you get what you want?

Probaly take some time and figure out what you want. Or maybe you do know what you want just you are too afraid to admit it….?

man oh man and you still don’t know what you want? You might want to talk to a therapist to help you kind of get everything in your life organized.

haha yeah thats ok. Just and idea =] but hmm so what you have said is that you don’t know what you want and that this girl is treating you like crap and you just can’t say whats on your mind to her…is that your problem or is it deeper or does it feel so much deeper.

All I have to say is remember that it will pass and like you said you are a nice guy and I can tell you are a nice guy because you haven’t said anything horrible about her this whole time and even if it has been 6 months since it happened its ok everyone is different on how they get over someone and it may not be easy to it may seem impossible but if she is preventing you from being happy then just forget her cause in a couple years she won’t be there and at the end of the day she doesn’t pay your bills or make a good impact on your life in anyway so just build up the strenght to let her not get to you I’ve gotta go

good luck!