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My “gf and I like each other but are afraid to start over?

What should we do?

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sarahmonster offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
GB | 6 years, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Are you seperated?

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Katie offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
GB | 6 years, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

If you didn’t take risks life would be boring.

Go for it.

Good Luck x

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Thepp offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

It seems you have two choices.

The first is to take your time and let things work out, having patience with each other and finding out if a new relationship can work out for you. In it’s own time and pace.

The second is to rush into it and try to force it to work out. I think that doing this might cause mistakes and missunderstandings.

Be kind to yourselves and to each other and let your love grow at it’s own pace.

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mathmajor offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 years, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

There should always be hope for success. I agree with the first two posts. Give it a try, but take things slowly. Be mindful of where you both are, in maturity, and in what you want out of the relationship. Start things over having discussed and lessened your old problems, so that they don’t resurface.

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