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ok im 33 years old and went on a date one time with

this guy and i told him that we are not the same type of people and he never called mw again and after couple of monthes i started thinking vabout him a lot and i knew he like me a lot too,so i called him and asked him if he want to try again ,he said yes but called me only after 4 monthes ,we were friends off and on ,i bassicly wanted to get married and he doesnt (he is a player)and now he bothers me in alot of difffrent ways every single day for 3 years. He is saying he does not like me but i know that he does,i know that he doesnt hate me .so i dont know why he bothers me?what should i do to bring him back to me?Because every time i call him,he hangs up on me.Hes driving me CRAZY!do you think hes never gonna come back?

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avatarleon offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Kissimmee, FL, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

omg do you honestly think he likes you?
-no offense

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emmy3 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

y’all don’t have as close of a connection as you think. You went on a date once, and your first impression was that you were different people.
I think you just really want to get married, and he’s the closest you’ll come to getting married.
Try match.com or eharmony.com because not only will you find people who are in teh same boat as you, but you will find somebody who you are compatible with.

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avatarleon offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Kissimmee, FL, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

well said

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (7 hours, 35 minutes after post)

I like to see the tonight show with jay, one time he said that eharmony and match.com are for middle aged people that are horney, it was so funny.

Why are you in a rush now when you weren’t in a rush before? is it because everyone you know is married? This guy you think he likes you has told he doesn’t, I think your wasting your time they are many men out there that are available. You sound desperate going after this one man like if he is the last man standing alive. there are many people who get married for the wrong reason it can lust, or they don’t want to be alone and they end up miserable and bittered and eventually divorced
there are people at the age of 68 and finally they find the right person.

If you want to get married because you want to have a child it the wrong reason to get married with someone that comes across and you don’t really know that person, you can adopt a child and be a single parent.

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A_Fellow_Human offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 7 months ago (9 hours, 33 minutes after post)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (19 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I feel he is making it obvious to you he doesn’t care about you. If he did, he wouldn’t be treating you this way. Perhaps he is punishing you for rejecting him the very first time you went out with him.

Whatever his reason, I think you need to move on and find someone who does love you, respects you and treats you like you deserve to be treated.

Good luck. Take care.

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