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What would you do?

I have an acquaintance that I Have known for about 4 years but only on a business level. She is actully the paper delivery girl at at my job. We talk about every thing and have so much in common that it is just amazing. when I look in her eyes and she’s looking back in mine… everything… feels… not quite normal. Because I feel stronger and weaker at the same time. I feel excited and at the same time, terrified. The truth is… I don’t know what I feel except I know what kind of man I want to be. It’s as if I’ve reached the unreachable and wasn’t ready for it.”

The problem is that I am recently ending a bad relationship (she knows all about it)We both have multiple jobs and don’t have time for relationships but I cant help but think about how happy I am after talking to her or just seeing her smile. How would you go about letting her know how you feel and finding out how she feels?

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beachgirl offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlantic Beach, NC, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Write her a small note and give it to her when she brings the paper. A poem or anything heartfelt but not too forward. Describe the way her smaile makes you feel and request that she meet you for coffee at a convienent time. Freshly picked wildflowers also brighten any girl’s day.

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nekojniko offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Skopje, 41, MK | 2 years, 7 months ago (59 minutes after post)

just do as you feel, life is too short. she might not feel the same but you dont want to spend your time wondering, at least you’ll know where you stand. I hope she feels the same about you and if thats the case think how happy you’ll be. its worth the risk

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Thepp offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

Simply just tell her, she probably already knows. It will help you both to understand each other much better.

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2 years, 7 months ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Paper delivery girl…. how old are you both?

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Troublsome offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Johannesburg, 06, ZA | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I agree with Thepp, and if your heart is with her all the time, it doesn’t help not telling her because you will be wondering all day what could’ve been etc…

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2 years, 7 months ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

tell me, you are you? what do you think about your future? how do you want to plan it? to be a good friend i have to tell you this life is all about what you see and how you take it the girl, you and tomomrrow think about how it could work before you considere filling and other things.so that is my word thank you.

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adrianna offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Just let her know she makes your day. She knows you have just ended something terrible and probably doesn’t expect anymore from you.
Good luck!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (20 hours, 24 minutes after post)

tell her exactly wa u just said

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