girl help: So I’m a 16 year old guy and I go to an all boys high school.

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So I’m a 16 year old guy and I go to an all boys high school.

I have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I am fine with this, but is it abnormal?

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spencersays 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (53 minutes after post)

No it’s not abnormal. I never kissed a girl until I was 16, and these days I have more female admirers than I know what to do with. Even a few marriage proposals from the crazy ones…lol Your time will come.

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Thepp 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (57 minutes after post)

I agree with spencersays.

It’s going to be something when it does happen for the first time. You are going to find yourself in a fantastic new world.

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Troublsome 1 #
Johannesburg, 06, ZA | 2 years, 7 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

It’s not abnormal, are your classmates all the same?
It’s not easy in your situation.

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2 years, 7 months ago (5 hours, 22 minutes after post)

No, not all my classmates are the same. I’m actually one of the few inexperienced.

Rhys 3 #
GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (7 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Well really i didnt have my first kiss until i was 15 but i was in a co-ed school which makes it much easier and you just need to get to know some girls and be paitient because its the only thing you can do

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US | 2 years, 7 months ago (8 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Don’t worry about it. Just do whatever you’re comfortable with and wait until you find a girl you like. I’m guessing some of the guys at school tease you a bit, it sounds like? (Sorry if i’m wrong.) Try not to let the peer pressure get to you (A lot easier said than done, I know). This way it’ll be more special when you do :).

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (13 hours after post)

No it isn’t abnormal. That is what gets me ticked and I mean TICKED! You boys always worrie about kising a girl. girls are not some prop that you go telling your guy friends about. “Oh guys I kissed my gf last night at the movies” BIG DEAL! dont worie about it. Oh and for the record I am a girl.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 7 months ago (13 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Whoa Kickboxer! I do not regard girls in such a manner, I always respect them. I am one of the few TRUE gentlemen that still exist. And as I said, it doesn’t bother me that much, I wanted to know if it was abnormal. I also thank you who have replied thus far.

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2 years, 7 months ago (16 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I’m 16, I don’t go to an all-boys high school and I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’ve never kissed a girl. If that’s not normal, then I’m fine with that.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (21 hours, 59 minutes after post)

It’s completely normal. But all boys high school? That sucks, babe.

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everythingisconnecte 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

You are fine. There is no need to rush. Trust me, us girls, we are not all that great sometimes

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