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have u ever had a headache where the more u think about it, the worse it gets? that happens with life too. the more u think about how difficult life it, the harder it becomes. fortunatly, thigs work the other way as well. the more u think things are the great and the more optomistic u are, the better u get a coping with the bad things and enjoying the good things.

Hey Im 15 too, I cant sleep because I’m worried about school but its homework and simple stuff, Are you sad all the time? What makes you sad the most? When I get sad I just try to find the cause of it, the basics, what it is thats really troubling me. Then I eitehr fix it, or learn to live with it, you know kind of make the best of whats around.

I remember 15. You have all this stuff going on inside, all these dawning realizations about the crappiest parts of humanity, questions with no answers, you start to see the adults in your life for what they really are, just flawed people. It’s tough. But I think some of the best, purest people are 15.
I happen to think that people are born with a longing for connection. To people, and to a Higher Spirit. Call it whatever you want, god,Jesus, allah, buddha, creator, guiding force of the universe,mother nature, whatever blows your hair back. When I finally started to try and connect with this ‘energy’ at 18 is when my life really started to make sense. I couldn’t swallow religion, still can’t, so I don’t do that, but I have created something that has the power to fill that part of me that can’t be filled with anything else.
Do some research. Pick and choose from the spiritualities that are out there, and come up with something that fills you too. It’s made all the difference in my life and is a source of comfort and power even in my darkest moments.

oh dear - you are so young - i know that may sound dumb, but at 45 i see you as you probably see an eight year old. I am not saying that to put you down. After all 8 year olds deserve consideration and respect and you do to. I am so sorry you are sad and feeling lonely. When i was your age i got that way a lot too, and oh how i wish i’d spent the time any other way. Reading a book is good. Drawing. Write down some things you want to have happen in your life. Do you want to go to college? Get married? Have kids? Or be a career woman or both? Do you want to paint? Or Teach? Do you want to own a big house or a little cottage? You can make almost anything happen dear girl, but you need goals that are yours and your alone. Then you can have something to look forward to every day and you will know why sometimes it seems all work and no play… it is not always that way, but what you DO now will have a huge effect. I will pray for you too as you are becoming a woman and that is a very tough time for your body which can also make it rough emotionally and mentally. Hang in there… you are becoming a butterfly!

Good morning nainachick, i hope you are fine when recieving this message. as for myself (mr. “b”) i’m brand new to this help.com site. but i want to thankyou for your information and thought, from the message that i left yesterday. if their is anything i can advise you with or help, please feel free to let me know. again thankyou.

Hi I’m 16 and have just started college. I couldnt go to dance college this year because I’m not good enough. All I’ve ever wanted to be is a dancer. My dance teacher wont even help me with the things I struggle on. Im always sad too. Dont worry your not on your own. I never sleep and I always cry. Nobody notices how upset I am sometimes and I feel as if I’m all alone. If you ever want to talk I have msn. Keep in there. You’re never on your own xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey im 13
I been thorugh a lot my family problemms i cry a lot too.
Cant stop i miss my family in cuba
I mis my grandma.
Need help?

Hello you don’t know me and I do not know you but I felt so prompted to tell you that you should go to the Mormon church for help! Call or pass by a church on sunday at 9pm speak to one of the elder missionaries and you will be free of this sadness.