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yea we broke up about a week ago and i want him back.

please help me!

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 322 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

it would be best if you tell him how u feel. if he doesnt feel thesame then you got to move on.

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aadams offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Tell him what is up, and how you feel. If he doesn’t feel the same way at least you tried you will not be the failure. I do not beleive the famous quote “Things are better left unsaid” it is better to be out in the open with yourself and your feelings.

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emohottie_060 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

he already has a new girlfriend like three hours away tho.every time i see him it hurts.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (23 minutes after post)

sorry to hear that. you can’t get him back dearie. It really hurts but u have to go through that. talk to a friend and express what u have inside. Some things are not meant to be ours. and we have to let them go. when we do that we find happiness for ourselves. take it easy.

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aadams offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Well hunny I know it hurts but if he already has a new girfriend he is not worth it..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (31 minutes after post)

but the day we broke up i got someone new and this is what i pay for. i dumped the new person today only to find my ex is no longer single.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (37 minutes after post)

We always learn from our mistakes. Let it be a learning experience aside from the fact that we should learn to think well before we make any move in decision making. What we do today affects what we will face tomorrow.

What’s done is done. cant cry over spilled milk as the cliche goes.

So relax for now. take it easy.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (49 minutes after post)

don’t worry about him theres otherguys and if he hes a new girl that means he dont have feelings for you and it wasnt ment to be if it is then he will be back one day

holla
angel

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Mosterton, M3, GB | 1 year ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

My friend is going through the same thing and its unbearable for her. I cant imagine how you must be feeling.

If he has a new girlfriend then…

Maybe its best to try and move on…

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Help me with: I like this guy and we are always (apparently) flirting and stuff…it seems simple dosent it, ask him out.
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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

i am going through a smilar thing right now. i was with a guy for about 4 years. in the heat of an argument, i said some things that i didnt mean. he left me for it. i almost think he might have been cheating because not even a week later, he had a new girl in his life. it hurts really bad, i know. ive tried dating, and no one seems to comapre to what i HAD. it took a long time, but i promise you, you’ll get through this. it happens to everyone, and i know sometimes it feels like its never going to get any better, but hunny one day you just wake up, and you realize you spent to many days crying when you coulda been out enjoying your life. my mother helped me through my break up. she told me “stop laying around and crying about the things that you dont have in your life and start being thankful for the things that have always been there”. shes right…just try and be strong. they always come back, just sometimes it to late. hang in there!

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