Love help: Well what can i say i just broke up with my boyfriend of three years, and i don’t know what to do…. - Help.com

you want to be with him but you broke up with him. why? remember, we read these posts and have no idea of your situation.

He is no good for me and i am no good for him, he has hurt me so many times that i cannot see a future between us anymore, and i have given him all the hope and faith i know how….. it is just one thing after another, i fully financially support him and have for two years, and i ask myself what for, he hasn’t done anything to prove to me that he wants to be with me, or is willing to change….. i want the best for him and i don’t want to hurt him, that is my last intention ever… and i feel like i have to do this or he will never grow up like maybe me doing this will help him in the long run and make him re-evaluate his own life..

well, in that case you NEED to make him move out, for his own good, and yours. as long as he is living with you, he will not try to fix his life. and while he is there, you will both feel the pain of the breakup much more intensly. it will be hard to make him leave, but if you care for him, and for yourself, you need to take this step.

Thank you for the words of encouragement, cuz i am having a really hard time not letting him back right now, last night was one of the hardest decisions i have ever had to make, and what you said is what i have been tryin to find the words to say… so again Thank You