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My boyfriend didnt tell me about one of his Ex-girlfriends that came to visit him.

Then it slipped out and he had to first making me believe he did tell me and I forgot but he didnt ever tell me. He said he thought I would badger him with a million questions. Why did he lie to me? If he could hide something so little, could he be hiding other things? Is it likely. He also gets really upset with me when I dont do as he tells me or dont listen to him. He sometimes switches his phones of for two days and wount answer my calls it drives me totally banananas. He puts the phone down in my ear and makes me feel disrespected. Is it easier for him to be ugly with me so that he doesnt feel guilty about doing hurtful things cause its justified cause I made him ‘angry’? Could it be that he has someone else in his life so he doesnt care if he looses me? How can he go from building me up and loving me one moment to braking me down the next? Help. Thank you.

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Parow, 11, ZA | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

The other girl is pregnant and in a new relationship also. Am I overreacting? What signs should there be that he doesnt really love me or that he does love me? Does this happen in a lot of relationships?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

hi yo post sounds a lot like my boyfriend,did you get a replies that made you understand his behaviour?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

hi i have been in simar situation and i think ur right he has got something to hide and hes making his feel better by doing things to make you angry so his behavour seems ok in his eyes because as you said made him angry
heres a news flash for you men are bastareds and are very good at playing games with ur head you just got be smart enough to spot his behavour and know when hes clearly bull shittin you trust ur instinc girl wot they tell you ?

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